Preethi Warrier

Voice of Preethi Warrier

Aattam
Malayalam Film Aattam Deftly Unmasks The Rape Culture Inherent In The Average Modern Man

Aattam has 12 men judging and deciding if a woman assaulted by one of them was 'asking for it' - almost like a jury of 12. Who gave you the right?

View Comments ( 0 )
Shameful That Trolls Attacked YouTuber Dhanashree Verma For Having A Life ‘Despite Being Married’!

Who are these people who decide how a married woman should pose? Women do have a life and career outside their marriages!

View Comments ( 0 )
How Trolls Came At Me Viciously When I Put Up A Review Of Animal!

The movie is one man’s idea of being 'Manly', violent and angry. With a lesson on how Good Women should be, meek and forgiving. If this isn’t a classic example of misogyny, what is?

View Comments ( 0 )
Wedding.con
Wedding.con Is An Eye Opener To The Curse Of How Marriage In India Is Unrelentingly Glorified…

Don't pressurize girls to get married, as that will save them from being preyed upon by a criminal and abuser who will take them for granted.

View Comments ( 0 )
How Important is Maa Ke Haath Ka Khana?#YesIDidIt #FridayFuel
How Important Is Maa Ke Haath Ka Khana, Really?!

I can't cook to save my life... errr... to be the "good mom" who can cook delicious food. But can't I be the mom who does other fun things?

View Comments ( 0 )
Fathers Are 'Too Cool', But Mothers Are Always Nagging?
Fathers Are ‘Too Cool’, But Mothers Are Always Nagging?

When it comes to child-rearing, why are the fathers always 'too busy'?

View Comments ( 0 )
Unprecedented Diversity In This Year’s Miss Universe Pageant Makes It A Historical Event!

Trans women, married women, a plus sized woman, and more make this year's Miss Universe pageant a first in many ways.

View Comments ( 0 )
What It Takes To Birth ‘Good Neeyat Wale Kids’ According To Cricketer Abdur Razzaq

After their loss in the ongoing series, Pakistani ex-cricketer made a comment - 'If you marry someone like Aishwarya Rai, you cannot be expected to have pious and good Neeyat wale children.'

View Comments ( 0 )
Kaala Paani
5 Strong Women Characters Drive A Suspenseful Narrative In Netflix’s Kaala Paani!

Kaala Paani does justice to truly representing gender equity and feminism. Real women, each from a different profession, from a different walk of life.

View Comments ( 0 )
The Social Media Trial Of Amber Heard – First In Court, Now On OTT

Amber Heard received the worst of abuses when she arrived in court, as opposed to the cheering and clapping for Depp. Had people already decided the woman was wrong?

View Comments ( 0 )
She Is My Captain Cool, At Work And In My Life!

She always focuses on the positives, and inspires me just by being herself, every day. I think my colleague is really cool.

View Comments ( 0 )
When Parents Are ‘A Bit Too Much’ Independent And Emancipated!

The senior woman refuses to budge. She wouldn’t tolerate bombarding her children with her responsibilities. As long as she isn’t bedridden, or rendered immobile, she would stay independently in her own house.

View Comments ( 0 )
Sweet Kaaram Coffee
Sweet Kaaram Coffee Is A Nuanced, Feminist Telling Of Women’s Inner Lives

A widowed elderly woman, her daughter in law, and granddaughter - run away on to a road trip together. What follows is Sweet Kaaram Coffee.

View Comments ( 0 )
Acceptance, Someone\'s Gain Someone\'s Loss. (Real Story) #CelebrateTheRainbow
Let’s Not Lose Good Teachers Over Our Bigotry About Their Sexuality!

“Madam, my son says there’s a homosexual teacher here. In that case, I demand that this professor is dismissed with immediate effect. I wouldn’t want my son to be associated with such a person. Nor do I think the institution should be.”

View Comments ( 0 )
Pranaya Vilasam(Love Nest) - Malayalam movie that prioritizes \'Just A HouseWife\'
Pranaya Vilasam(Love Nest) – Malayalam movie that prioritizes ‘Just A HouseWife’

Watched Malayalam movie ‘Pranaya Vilasam’ that roughly translates to Love Nest, on Zee5. And was amazed as to how the makers have handled the role of a homemaker,  subtly but effectively. So the story is about a village officer, his homemaker wife Anu and their college going son. A typical day in their house sounds […]

View Comments ( 0 )
Is A Black Woman Playing Queen Cleopatra Such A Big Deal?

There’s no reliable evidence about who Cleopatra’s mother was, or what was her lineage. So there’s a good possibility that her mother was an African woman, which could make Queen Cleopatra black.

View Comments ( 0 )
When My Mom Told Me ‘You Should Have A Career So They Can’t Say You’re Enjoying For Free’!

“Financial independence is a must for everyone, especially women if you want an equal partnership in marriage. Lifespan and relationships do not come with a guarantee," my mother had said.

View Comments ( 0 )
If He Won’t Take Care Of Himself You Should Do It As His Wife!

There’s nothing wrong as such, to be entrusted with the responsibility of your spouse’s good health. But never has any doctor or nurse or relative asked my husband to take care of mine despite my worse health problems!

View Comments ( 0 )
Oruthee
ORUTHEE: A Raw Realistic Take On The So-Called Average Woman

Radhamani in Oruthee is vulnerable, not a superwoman. She falls, she weeps, she breaks down. But in spite of everything, she has to rise.

View Comments ( 0 )
Stop Acting! All Women Endure This So You’re Not Special!

She told my mother, "You doting parents turn these girls into delicate darlings, you should let them be a little tough. Girls have to be strong, what is this?"

View Comments ( 0 )
A ‘Good Looking Woman’ Gets Better Chances Here, But I Wasn’t Having That!

Students did need some emotional help from time to time, and I assured my mentee’s mother that the sessions would remain strictly confidential and there was nothing to be embarrassed about.

View Comments ( 0 )
I’m Dumping Your Gaslighting, Dear Husband, And Having A Happy Solentine!

She had wept into the pillow every other night initially. He had covered up calling it just a joke, but the wound had remained fresh for quite some time.

View Comments ( 0 )
Ziya and Zahad
Ziya And Zahad Denied Adoption As A Trans Couple, But See The Miracle Now!

Ziya and Zahad are a trans couple, and very much capable of love that a child needs. They're having a biological child, but shouldn't trans couples be able to adopt legally?

View Comments ( 0 )
In Bikini Or Sari, Bollywood Just Wants A Sarva Guna Sampanna Nari!

In the film, Deepika's Rubai is not just a sex siren, the "bait" for snaring Pathaan. She's also a trained agent, a spy, an action hero, and, "Sarva Guna Sampanna".

View Comments ( 0 )
Bharti Singh
Bharti Singh Weeps On Malaika’s Show About Being Fat-Shamed, But Why Can’t I Sympathize?

Comedian Bharti Singh spoke about the body shaming and trolling for her weight on Moving in with Malaika, but it all sounds scripted and not real.

View Comments ( 0 )
No Matter WHAT She Does, She’s Just Ain’t Good Enough For THEM!

I am who I am, what I am, and no, I don't need to justify my choices and life to anyone. I am a woman and I am going to live life my way.

View Comments ( 0 )
So What If The Boys Had Raped Her—Everyone Held HER Responsible!

The four boys were proven innocent, they were acquitted. But of course, there was no solid evidence against them and then, they belonged to influential families.

View Comments ( 0 )
Dubai Bling: The Glitz, Glamour And Garments Can't Hide The Misogyny
Dubai Bling: The Glitz, Glamour And Garments Can’t Hide The Misogyny

After watching Netflix’s Dubai Bling, I can’t stop wondering, is the portrayal of women on television and cinema doing any justice to women?

View Comments ( 0 )
Self Plea By A Trans Woman For Mercy Killing Is A Horrifying Symptom Of Our Transphobic Society

And to think, these are some of the rare cases that got some publicity. There must be so many more suicides among trans persons that aren't reported.

View Comments ( 0 )
We’re ‘Sanskaari’ People In This Building, How Can We ‘Allow’ Single Young Women Tenants?

When our watchman also slut shamed the single young women - "chaar ladkiyon ke saath dus ladke bhi aa jayenge!" (If these women live here, tomorrow young men will come to their home!)

View Comments ( 0 )
The Very REAL Women Of Delhi Crime: Good, Flawed, Or Evil…

The series is all about women, the protagonist is a woman and so are many significant characters. They are regular women, they wear regular clothes, they err, they struggle, they succeed, and there is no over the top  drama.

View Comments ( 0 )
Woman Forced To Bathe Naked In Public By Husband And In-Laws For Male Child… WTF!

It's been 2 days since the incident occurred, there is a law against practice of occult and black magic, but... only FIRs have been filed against the offenders. No arrests have been made, yet.

View Comments ( 0 )
You Don’t Need Anyone’s ‘Permission’ To Follow Your Dream!

You do not have to be perfect. There’s no perfect daughter, perfect employee, perfect wife, or perfect mother. These are just labels created by society, for their convenience.

View Comments ( 0 )
strong women
“She’s So Strong, She Never Complains” Is The Biggest Scam Ever That Women Are Tricked Into

I had once asked my mother, a post graduate, why she didn't have a job, and she had replied that our father preferred her to be at home, and she didn’t wish to disappoint him.

View Comments ( 0 )
No Indian Man Wants To Consider A Vasectomy… While Women Are Expected To Bear The Brunt

They may sympathize with their partners or spouses who suffer silently with painful contraception, sterilization, unwanted pregnancies or abortions, but not once do they consider vasectomy as an option.

View Comments ( 0 )
But Society Will Shame You, Not Him!

I would put in my papers eventually, I had no intention of working in this inferno of misogyny. But not until I was served with an apology.

View Comments ( 0 )
The (Male) Heir

"Have a baby, all your problems will be solved.” My mother counselled, and like an obedient daughter and like many other women who fall prey to this trap, I planned a baby.

View Comments ( 0 )
I’m Your Daughter And There’s Nothing Wrong In Asking Me For Help When You Need It!

She had demanded a divorce immediately, but his family had been reluctant, what if people came to know? They had tried all tricks in the book, to keep her from leaving.

View Comments ( 0 )
Her Right To Live Is More Precious To Me Than Your Wish For An Heir!

Oh, the physical pain she had suffered, not to mention, the trauma and the heartbreak of losing one child after the other. And for no fault of theirs, or hers.

View Comments ( 0 )
In The Name Of The Family’s Honour

But I would remain silent, because husbands own the right to marital rape. The next morning I would get back to the never ending chores, as if nothing happened.

View Comments ( 0 )
Your Husband Earns Well, Lets You Work, Keeps You Happy; What More Do You Want?

“How could you stoop so low? You are a woman, what about your honour, our honour? You reject a stable relationship, for excitement?

View Comments ( 0 )
To My Horror, I Saw My Own Teenage Face In My Son’s Fearful One

Relatives who hadn’t cared to as much talk to us since ages, were now offering advice, as to how being a mother, I was ruining my son’s future.

View Comments ( 0 )
When Our Engineering Profs Showed Their Sexism By Grading Girls Depending On Looks!

If you wonder why we didn’t complain, let me tell you it’s not that simple. Many of these offenders were powerful and influential.

View Comments ( 0 )
Beware Of Becoming Charitraheen Like Your Shanta Valyamma…

So, to cut a long story short, the much needed paper work somehow brought me to where nobody else in my family had set foot in for almost thirty years.

View Comments ( 0 )
I’m A Graduate And She’s Aiming For A PhD… My Friends Will Laugh If I Marry Her!

She wondered how she had managed to lose herself amidst all the riches and luxury. She was bound in a walled garden, with a husband who loved her, as long as she stayed a few steps behind him in all walks of life.

View Comments ( 0 )
Tribhanga
With All That Happens In Tribhanga Why Are We Most Agitated By Kajol Using Cuss Words?

What’s the big deal about Tribhanga that people are bothered by Kajal mouthing cuss words? Everyone suddenly seems to have woken up and taken notice!

View Comments ( 0 )
According To My In-Laws, Nothing I Did Was Ever As Good As The Bahu Next Door!

'No offence, but ladies work, study & pursue their hobbies. You do well too, but there’s nothing very special like you don’t excel anywhere.'

View Comments ( 0 )
And You Thought ‘Being Sanskari’ Was Enough To Be The Perfect Bride?

In spite of everything, today’s man expects his life partner to be an epitome of perfection, appropriate height, figure, qualification, career, dressing sense, values ….NOT MORE, NOT LESS.

View Comments ( 0 )
Let Me Be A Child For A Little Longer, Mother; Ain’t I Too Young For A Hookup?

Here we are, lecturing about how Bollywood objectifies women, how regressive the item songs and their lyrics are and how perhaps it’s time we break the stereotype and treat women with more respect.

View Comments ( 0 )
bachaposh
What It Is To Be A Woman In This Godforsaken Part Of The World

But then, if she had been a girl all the time, she would have never known the other side of life. How different it is, to be a man in our part of the world.

View Comments ( 0 )
No In-law Trouble, A Loving Family, But… As A Daughter In Law, I’m Taken For Granted

Does abuse always come with blows, taunts, physical and mental torture? Doesn't total disregard of someone's needs count as cause for bitterness too?

View Comments ( 0 )
This MIL DIL Madness Stops With Us; We Break The Chain

“Bhabhi worked before marriage, Ma. You insisted on her leaving her job. I’m not like you, I can’t think like you. That reminds me, Karthik seems to be free now, it’s his turn to mop the floor today. Bye."

View Comments ( 0 )
It Was As If The Dark Clouds Of Ignorance In Her Life Had Lifted

She had heard stories of the forbidden land, the widows’ quarters, but little had she imagined it to be so miserable. She quietly followed her husband, why did visiting one’s own mother have to be a secret?

View Comments ( 3 )
How Many Men Really Know, They Determine The Gender Of Their Child

Women of the family are often blamed for having daughters instead of sons. Even though the gender of a child should not matter, here is an old newsflash from science: If anyone is responsible, its the men.

View Comments ( 0 )
Isn’t That Against Indian Culture? Now That There’s Nothing Between Us, Why All This Drama?

Now how would I feel if my girlfriend lands more roles than me, wins awards every now and then, and to top it all, works with my rivals and agrees to do intimate scenes with them? Wouldn’t I become a laughing stock?

View Comments ( 0 )
But If He Didn’t Touch You Or Say Anything Inappropriate, How Is It Sexual Harassment?

Sexual harassment may not always be an inappropriate touch or comment. Some times, it is something seemingly mundane as phone calls too!

View Comments ( 2 )
‘If I Can’t Have A Son, I Hope She Doesn’t Have One Either’

I tried everything possible to have a son. I followed diets, rituals, conducted all Poojas for a son. But still, nothing worked. I have two daughters now.

View Comments ( 0 )
You Distract Me And It’s Your Fault

Never tolerate sexism and objectification from your professors or employers, your abilities and talents invalidated because you're a girl, says this author. 

View Comments ( 0 )
Making A Difference, On A Path Less Traveled

For the village folk, she was like a daughter they never had, a friend they could trust. They treated her with unadulterated love and respect, they looked up to her.

View Comments ( 0 )
Just One Among HIS Many Devadasis

They fought pretty strongly Bhairavi, looks like, in less than a month, this Devdasi custom will be totally abolished, you will be free forever.

View Comments ( 0 )
Nope! My Son And I Do Not Regret Dropping Maths And Choosing A Different Subject

'We received an elaborate report indicating Dyscalculia.' And thus began a mother and son's battle against the dreaded Maths! How she battled it is amazing!

View Comments ( 0 )
Body Shamed For Never Removing Body Hair, I’ve Realised Now That I Don’t Really Care

Why are women who do not remove body hair shamed for it, wonders the author - after all, it should be her choice!

View Comments ( 2 )
Of Sisters, Long Drives, Digging And Some Tanhaai

The emotional gap between us, which we created over years, was bridged in a few seconds. Why did it take so long for us to laugh together?

View Comments ( 0 )
Kahaani Kiss Ki – When An Actress Kisses An Actor

To kiss or not to kiss is no longer the question. It has changed to - who kissed whom. And if it a woman taking that initiative: heavens forgive her!

View Comments ( 0 )
What I Most Miss About Home As A Married Indian Woman Living In Sweden For 15 Years

An Indian woman who moved to Sweden after her marriage, the author shares an unusual aspect of what coming home means to her.

View Comments ( 3 )
And There She Was, The Real Her, Beautiful And Graceful

Those few hours when she returned from school to an empty house, were like Nirvana. She would deck up in her mother’s cosmetics and pose before the mirror, until the day her brother saw her.

View Comments ( 1 )
It Was Finally My Kind Of Rose Day!

There were hundreds of real humans who loved her, she glowed with confidence. She had long given up examining herself on the mirror, but of late, when she saw her reflection, her radiant self smiled back.

View Comments ( 0 )
You Acted For Your ‘Honour’, But I’m Going To Haunt You To The End!

“You were ruining our family reputation. Living in with a man, without getting married. Oh, and the clothes you were wearing when we met that day in the city, so tight, so short.

View Comments ( 0 )
My Mother Ensured I Did What She Never Did #MothersDay

She taught me MY value in MY life. She taught me to be a bit selfish and not center my entire day around my kid.

View Comments ( 0 )
Duryodhana… Your Villain, But My Hero

His brothers and friend Karna covered for him, as they fought my father’s soldiers. As for him, he took off with me in his chariot. And I don’t know why, I was bowled over.

View Comments ( 0 )
Living All Over Again, This Time For Myself

He never loved me, and I was always a disgrace for him, didn’t speak well, didn’t dress well. I was a ‘country bumpkin’ as he called me and much to his relief, I stopped going out to parties with him.

View Comments ( 2 )

Stay updated with our Weekly Newsletter or Daily Summary - or both!

All Categories