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Radhamani in Oruthee is vulnerable, not a superwoman. She falls, she weeps, she breaks down. But in spite of everything, she has to rise.
Happened to watch a Malayalam movie on Manorama Max, ‘Oruthee’. Which translates to ‘That Woman.’ It’s a 2022 film, I just happened to catch it now.
This true story revolves around Radhamani, brilliantly played by Navya Nair, a middle-class, average woman. She is a boat conductor, who juggles work and home, her two children, and her mother-in-law. Her husband works in the gulf and unlike what is usually made out of Gulf Malayalis, this man isn’t all that rich. In fact, he’s unemployed when the story plays out. So, the major responsibility of bringing food to the table falls on Radhamani.
Her daughter, unfortunately, gets hospitalized and Radhamani is left with no other option than mortgaging the little jewellery she has. But she’s a woman, all alone in the big bad world, and ends up getting duped by the gold mafia.
How a seemingly timid woman takes on the rich gold mafia goons and brings them to their knees, forms the crux of the story.
This might sound pretty regular, I mean you might wonder what’s novel. Let me tell you, it’s the narration, the honest treatment, and Radhamani’s character development, that stands out.
Radhamani is just another woman, any face in the crowd, who has to put up a brave front because there’s just so much that she is responsible for. Like many of us women out there, Radhamani is so real, so normal. With her children, their schooling, her mother, her mother-in-law, and her job, she looks visibly tired. The perspiration and exasperation, I could relate a lot, as the audience. And Radhamani goes on, on her scooter, from her office to the hospital, back home, to the bank, she can’t stop. Because everything at home falls on her shoulders.
Unlike some serials or women-oriented movies, where a strong woman protagonist goes about fulfilling all her responsibilities with a fake smile and inspirational music, there’s no preaching here. Radhamani in Oruthee is vulnerable, not a superwoman. She falls, she weeps, she breaks down. But in spite of everything, she has to rise. And push herself to fight against the perpetrators, for the sake of her family. Which she does, eventually, but sans any shouting from rooftops.
And Navya Nair does a great job in making Radhamani a believable, everyday woman. She actually lives the role.
But for me, more than anything, the conversations between Radhamani and her husband resonated a lot.
Their daughter is hospitalized due to food poisoning, and the moment the man hears this on phone, he lashes out as to what she feeds his children and how careless a mother she is. He lives in a faraway land and is unemployed, so he obviously can’t help her much. But that doesn’t deter him from playing the blame game. When Radhamani sets off to mortgage her jewellery to pay the hospital bills, she realizes she has lost the purchase receipt. Her husband reprimands her rather rudely over the phone, holding her responsible for their predicament. “Do whatever you want, I can’t take it anymore” he shouts.
We see her weeping, talking to herself, but incessantly looking for the paper all around the place. Because she’s made to believe it’s all her fault. Though she retorts, gives him an earful, and cuts the call, she doesn’t stretch the argument. Because she knows it’s futile, her priority is to find the document and settle the hospital bill.
‘Oruthee’ may not be a masterpiece, but it is definitely worth your time and effort. For Navya Nair’s natural performance and for the many facets of a woman’s life and feminism, subtly dealt, with sensitivity and maturity.
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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