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After watching Netflix’s Dubai Bling, I can’t stop wondering, is the portrayal of women on television and cinema doing any justice to women?
Happened to watch Netflix’s Dubai Bling and couldn’t help but wonder, is the portrayal of women on television and cinema doing any justice to women? Especially when it’s about empowerment and independence.
Just like many other reality shows about rich and influential people, this one too walks us through the glamorous lifestyles of 6-7 rich and successful women, and the depiction is the same as always.
They wear designer labels (only designer labels), jet around in helicopters, can’t survive without luxury (their words, not mine), and live an enormously larger than life lifestyle.
The notion that fashionable women have equally stylish careers all the time, like jewellery designing, fashion designing, interior decoration, social media influencing, selling real estate to celebrities, etc is maintained here as well. They are all into some chic businesses, and party day and night on yachts and private jets.
But honestly, superficial as these look, I am not concerned about the fashion or opulence, the ladies can afford the clothes and seem to be enjoying their lives.
Which is totally fine.
What irks me is the mentality attached to working women and housewives.
There’s one lady, a real estate agent fondly called ‘The Versace Queen,’ who works all day and attends every dazzling party in town, with her husband in tow. But more often than not, in almost every episode, she laments about her busy lifestyle not letting her spend time with her children.
My question is, if her husband is busy as well, why do the makers dump this clichéd working woman monologue on her?
Moreover, her husband is the epitome of chivalry, he appreciates her all the time, and comforts her, in fact he takes the children off on a vacation with him, so she gets some me time.
Is it only me or do we see a confused career-oriented woman and her sweet and supportive husband?
Then there’s this housewife, extremely wealthy, so much so, that her mansion gets too small for her. Why? Because there are rooms for her clothes alone.
She cribs all the time about lack of space, and her poor husband goes out of his way to please her. He gifts her an apartment, and she snaps, “Why gift, all that is yours is mine.”
They even look at a ‘castle’, she loves it and screams at him, “C’mon. Pay the advance right now.” And he looks on innocently, unable to calm her. But later he defends his wife, it’s her hormones, she’s stressed, I’ll do anything to make her happy. Of course, the good husband and his gold-digging wife.
There’s a young widow, again immensely rich, who wishes to start life afresh and dates some young men. She doesn’t like them much, so the Mama’s boys state she’s playing too hard to get.
The makers prefer to keep it that way, emphasizing that all her riches were her late husband’s, and she spends it all on her more than lavish life. Gold-digger, again?
A popular DJ’s wife owns her own label and happens to be an Instagram queen.
She is independent, a pillar of support for her husband, but then every time the man as much speaks to another woman, we hear tense music in the background and the lady tells us, “If she thinks she can snatch my husband, I won’t let her.”
So much so, that when her best friend, one of the aforementioned women, stands close to her DJ husband, she feels threatened and insecure. After all, jealousy is a womanly trait, right?
The women meet up all the time over lunch, and what do they do? No guesses, they gossip. About the member of the team who’s not coming that day. To the extent, that two of them bitch about a third, who’s to show up later.
And the very next day, one of them rats out her friend to the other.
And the two old friends now turned foes fight. And how, they pull each other by the hair, throw coffee and shout, ‘You’re Fake You’re Fake.’
Some others hug and kiss in public, but spew venom when in the company of their besties.
Come the men to the rescue. They are still friends, they meet up for golf, they don’t speak ill of anyone, they discuss the ‘cat fight’ and meet the two squabbling women personally to make amends.
But the adamant, headstrong, and particularly hormonal women refuse to budge.
Dubai Bling garbs its underlying misogyny in layers of designer clothes and accessories. It’s the 21st century, but the makers still believe that the way to a woman’s heart is a man’s wealth.
And however smart or strong they may be, Women will be Women; bitchy, temperamental and vain.
Image source: Still from the trailer of Dubai Bling on Youtube.
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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