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As parents, we need to make a small, yet substantial change, that will make sure our daughters have a fair chance at everything. Are we ready to do that?
Just a few months back, we all celebrated International Women’s Day ’17. I am sure whoever among us would have remembered must have definitely taken a few minutes of the day (be it by a hug, a call, a post on social networking site, etc. etc.) to thank the women who make our life special.
Like every year, one more Women’s Day passed with a boom of posts on social networking sites, the fest’s by many leading organizations, award ceremonies and much more. Though there arises no need to celebrate a day to cherish the gift of womanhood, we still do because the social stigmas, taboos and also the bias, perspectives, and lifestyle in which our society has been chained, need to be spoken about. This day generates a hope that when we will celebrate the next, we will be a part of a different chapter.
There are a few small changes that we can bring about and imbibe in our family and society to bring about a small yet substantial change.
Whether a woman is working or non-working, the responsibilities of all household chores fall on her shoulders. The Indian woman is supposed to have some magic wand and ‘manage’ by default. If she is working, once she is done with cooking, breakfast, lunch, and kids; then starts her race to the office.
It had better be understood that she has got no magic wand. Men should have an equal share in all household chores whether it kitchen buying the groceries and once you start with your share, you will figure out a big list!
This fact could not be denied that parenting is a tough job. Ever thought, how it impacts your boy when you give him a toy car and your girl a Barbie doll? The demarcations start so small but grow so big that they affect an entire generation. It is a parental responsibility to give them an inner and outer world which is non-biased where they choose their own pink and blue; they learn this and will propagate further.
A working woman are not just about contributing to the finances of the family, but also about her independence and dreams. While she is working, she realizes her own personal and professional strength, which aids in self, family and societal growth and productivity. We have to let every woman live her dreams, the way she desires it to be when she is married, when she is a mother and forever.
My girl will be a Doctor (can open her own clinic nearby) or a Teacher (perk: a lot of holidays!) or to the utmost extent a Computer Engineer (it’s a white collar job).
We have to let her decide what she wants to be, a soldier or a mechanical engineer or a pilot or an army officer. We do not have to chain her in the stereotype that field work is men’s work. This time, we will teach each daughter, that the work you love is your work.
I hope we will imbibe these changes and be the change. Good Luck!
Image source: By Ministry of Defense of Ukraine [CC BY-SA 2.0], via Wikimedia Commons, for representational purposes only.
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In the last few days I was having a conversation with my younger sister about relationships, and she said something which hit me hard.
I have seen a lot of people feel uncomfortable sharing their age, but I have no such hesitations. I am 32 years old and my younger cousins tell me that I belong to the ‘old generation’. If you are born in the year 1990, you are still considered among them, but if a year less – 1989, you are from the old school.
Being an elder sister, my cousins come to me seeking advice about studies, career and relationships, but when I try to help in the way I understand, the only reply I get is, “Didi, leave it, you’ll not understand it. Aapki generation aur hamari generation mein bahut fark hai. (There’s a lot of difference between your and my generation).”
In the last few days I was having a conversation with my younger sister about relationships, and she said something which hit me hard. Though she is from the new generation and I am from the so-called old generation, we share a lot of mutual thoughts and interests. We spoke about love, how the generation born after the year 2000 perceives love.
You ask any SATC fan. We all wanted a friendship like the one that the 4 girls shared. A friendship that was a rock. A friendship that seemed to withstand the tests of time and in general, life.
I confess that SATC (Sex and the City) has a special place in my heart. I must have watched the 6 seasons and every single episode at that, countless times. Seriously, there was nothing like sitting back with a glass of wine, a bar of dark chocolate and an episode of SATC, after a hard day at work. It renewed me. Made me laugh.
So much so, that I even ended up going for the special SATC bus tour when I visited New York in 2019.
Now some may call the show frivolous but for me, it was pure, honest entertainment. I was in love with the fashion, the ‘fabulousness’, the fun! And it had its moments as well. Moments that were truly thought-provoking, moments that made its viewers take a good, candid look at their own relationships, particularly their female friendships.