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"The undaunted me will not remain fettered by your patriarchal chains," says the woman in this evocative poem.
“The undaunted me will not remain fettered by your patriarchal chains,” says the woman in this evocative poem.
I kicked off Your decrepit shield of norms And I lifted my veil You frowned and fussed Used your feigned chivalry To let the fear prevail
I dared to hold a hand Love, endear and rebel You condemned, commanded Abused and butchered For you wanted me In silence to dwell
With the power of my pen I voiced my dissent You gave me lessons in morality A string of ‘fatwas’ you sent Unabated I surged ahead Without any remorse For the rules I bent
I vowed to learn To keep the flame Of education kindled You put a gun on my head There I was An unwavering soul Not once I dwindled
I defy your whims and fancies For I am here To carve my own path I will ascend, assert and aspire Demand and desire Renounce, love and dream Don’t you scare me With the aftermath!
I will dare and dazzle I will challenge Rise and roar The woman in me Will keep yearning for more!
I shall continue To walk the unconventional lanes Wearing my vigour and resolve You may warn, thwart Repress and restrain me Nevertheless, Like a phoenix I shall evolve!
Yes I have a Taslima A Malala and a Gurmehar in me I will indeed speak my mind And this is the way Undeterred I shall be!
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People say that women are the greatest enemies of women. I vehemently disagree. It is the patriarchal mindset that makes women believe in the wrong ideology.
The entire world celebrates International Women’s Day on March 8, 2024. It should be a joyful day, but unfortunately, not all women are entitled to this privilege, as violence against women is at its peak. The experience of oppression pushes many women to choose freedom. As far as patriotism is concerned, feminism is not a cup of tea in this society.
What happens when a woman decides to stand up for herself? Does this world easily accept the decisions of women in this society? What inspires them to be free of the clutches of the oppression that women have faced for ages? Most of the time, women do not get the chance to decide for themselves. Their lives are always at the mercy of someone, which can be their parents, siblings, husband, or children.
In some cases, women do not feel the need to make any decisions. They are taught to obey the patriarchal system, which makes them believe that they are right. In my family, I was never taught to make decisions on my own. It was always my parents who bought dresses and all that I needed.
14 years after her last feature film Dhobi Ghat, storyteller extraordinaire comes up with her new film, Laapataa Ladies, a must watch.
*Some spoilers alert*
Every religion around the world dictates terms to women. The onus is always on women to be ‘modest’ and cover their faces and bodies so men can’t be “tempted”, rather than on men to keep their eyes where they belong and behave like civilized beings. So much so that even rape has been excused on the grounds of women eating chowmein or ‘men will be men’. I think the best Hindi movie retort to this unwanted advice on ‘akeli ladki khuli tijori ki tarah hoti hai’ (an alone woman is like an open jewellery box) came from Geet in Jab We Met – Kya aap gyan dene ke paise lete hain kyonki chillar nahin hain mere paas.
The premise of Laapataa Ladies is beautifully simple – two brides clad in the ghunghat that covers their identity get mixed up on a train. Within this Russian Doll, you get a comedy of errors, a story of getting lost, a commentary on patriarchy’s attitude towards women, a mystery, and a tale of finding oneself, all in one. Done with a mostly light touch that has you laughing and nodding along.
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