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What do the words strong woman mean to you? A surprising look at the concept that will blow away all your stereotypes.
“Strong women don’t cry and show their emotions, others can take advantage of your weakness”- Ever heard of these statements coming from people who think they know you the best?
This makes me wonder: how do you actually define a Strong Woman?
We have different notions in our mind about ‘strong‘ women, and we often find ourselves celebrating the strong and successful woman in all forums. What doesn’t get celebrated or acknowledged is the other aspect of being a strong woman.
I really want to explore this other aspect of being ‘strong’ which gets overshadowed most of the times. This is because we don’t value those traits in modern times, where everything seems to be measured in a materialistic way, but I strongly believe that this is something which we need to applaud and cheer. Let’s explore this other side of being a Strong Woman….
No matter how many times I have failed in life, I have always come back even stronger and more resilient. I am standing before you with my head held high and ready to take on any curve balls thrown at me by life. This is what defines a Strong Woman.
I don’t tolerate and encourage any kind of unjust behavior with myself but also whenever I see others treated unjustly, I raise my voice. Being Strong doesn’t only mean safeguarding yourself and your interests but also equally raising your voice for the ones who cannot stand up for themselves.
I am not an emotional fool if I show my emotions and openly express myself. I don’t want my emotions bottled up inside me, I want to share my feelings with others- How does that makes me weak?
It takes courage to openly express yourself and I don’t see it a weakness. If I show empathy towards someone and I feel the pain of others, I am not an ‘oversensitive’ person. I consider this as my strength and should be proud of the same.
I am a strong woman when I know how to balance being practical and when to show compassion and love. I know when I should take care of my interests and protect myself selfishly, and when to show love and affection to do things for others selflessly. Protecting my interests, my loved ones, my passion along with protecting others who are in need is what defines a strong woman.
I am true to myself and my feelings. I don’t put up a show showing others that I am happy and contended but inside I am filled with all negative thoughts about myself and people around me. Everyone has their own demons to fight and being true to yourself is what keeps the fighting spirit going.
I am fighting day in and out with an unbroken spirit against a life-threatening disease, as I am a strong woman, but it also needs strength when I take care of my loved ones who need special care and attention, and I don’t shy away from responsibilities. This selfless act of standing up for people in their hour of need makes me a Stronger woman.
I am a Strong woman who will not shy away from asking for help when I see myself drowning head deep in a whirlpool of sorrow or struggling with my depressing thoughts, seeking help from friends and loved ones to pull me out of a grave situation will not make me less strong. We all need a helping hand in some phase of life or other and reaching out for that hand is not a sign of weakness.
I am a strong woman who goes an extra mile to maintain her integrity and follow the principles set by her in life and not merely by the society. By not giving up on my work ethics and integrity I am challenged every day to survive in a competitive workplace but what makes me stronger is the belief that I am being true to myself and my work no matter what.
I am a strong woman and an even stronger human being, because I am making deliberate effort every day to grow as an individual and learn from my past experiences without holding any grudges for anyone. I’m trying to achieve a wholesome life which is a right balance between mental, emotional and spiritual well-being. This is making me a stronger person every-day in my life.
We know many such strong women around, let’s try to applaud and encourage them, else we might as well lose the human side and aspect of being a Strong and Successful woman!
Header image is a still from the movie Raazi
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"There is a story and a vision which makes us gravitate towards cinema. Even as we worked as assistants on ads, we realised that cinema was our true calling," say Gunpreet Kaur Mann and Deepali Singh Raseen.
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Let me introduce to you the talented designer duo who have worked on these, and can be considered today’s upcoming costume designers for the screen. Gunpreet Kaur Mann and Deepali Singh.
Having studied at NIFT, Gunpreet Kaur Mann sent her portfolio out to several designers. Her first gig was as an assistant stylist with Manoshi and Rushi, who also happen to be a designer duo. She worked on an ad film starring Saif Ali Khan and eventually landed a full time job with designer Vikram Phadnis. Years of experience as assistant costume designer followed, which eventually led her to getting a break.
A ‘thank you’ makes a lot of difference in the way any woman in your life sees herself in your eyes. It might even mean the world to her.
I have not received any appreciation in the past. Probably never will. This is the experience of ample women across the globe. The expectation to be thanked for all the sacrifices she makes to keep others happy has faded. Yet the urge to hear few words of acknowledgement always lingers.
There is never a day when she pushes off her own burdens. She knows not to give up on people she loves. Women in general, are givers by nature and hence, give without asking anything in return. They have been the care givers and lovers since centuries however receive no appreciation.
It will mean the world to your mother if you answer her calls. If your sister seems lost give her a hug and assure her about her strengths. Tomorrow, there might come a day when you would have to make your daughter feel empowered with few words of wisdom every now and then. For the children to feel wanted and loved, you must be able to spare some quality time with your wife and be present in the moment.
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