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Are you worried about never finding the ideal Indian bahu? Not anymore! Read on, you troubled soul, the solution to your problem lies ahead.
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After lengths of discussion, rigorous days of research and travel, and sheer hard work, we at Women’s Web finally have the exact ingredients that make the ideal Indian bahu.
Now it isn’t that complicated, just a few simple rules to follow and Voila!
The girl should just be sundar, sushil and sanskaari. That is, basically, all.
Now, the three words may sound easier than you thought but do note that every sense of each word should be followed in every walk of life by the prospective bride. And we mean every sense quite literally. Be it social, colloquial, historic, geographical, mathematical, literary, scientific, mythological and of course, cultural.
Don’t for a second think that if these qualities have to be on the inside only. No, not all! She should be sundar but don’t her fool you by talking about inner beauty and all that philosophical things that the western civilisation seems to corrupt aaj kal ki ladkiyan with.
Talking about western, it is absolutely essential that she wears only Indian clothes. If you see her wearing jeans, I suggest you run as fast as you can and never look back. She is the opposite of what you are looking for and could corrupt your sanskaar in the blink of an eye.
She shouldn’t talk back, talk while adults are talking, treat you like a God, be ready to devote the rest of her life to be you and your son’s slave, should know how to cook excellently, sacrifice a lamb at your altar.. you know, the usual.
If that sounds like too much work, then just watch this video “Arranged Marriages in India – How To Find The Perfect Bride”, which we are proud to present to you.
We have a list of such ideal candidates at the end with full details. You should be easily able to buy find one near you. All the very best!
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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