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The poet writes about the deep seated malaise in Indian society, which glorifies fair skin, and demonises dark skin - not realising the profound effect it can have on our mostly brown population.
The poet writes about the deep seated malaise in Indian society, which glorifies fair skin, and demonises dark skin – not realising the profound effect it can have on our mostly brown population.
Being dark, dusky, is not a disability Being black, brown, is not a disease!
I’m dark I’m dusky I’m black I’m beautiful, I’m handsome too… Maybe you can’t find it! But that doesn’t matter any more Ask yourself Why it should always be Fair and lovely, fair and handsome? Why in every Indian story, Mythologies, fairytales, Bollywood movies The prince, princess, heroes… Always depicted with fair skin? And the devils, villains Often portrayed with dark skin? Why is the idea of being beautiful, By default attached to being fair? And only fair mean to be lovely and handsome?
Is really black, dark, ugly? No, it is not, If it is.. Why is wearing black loved more? Why are facial moles considered as beauty marks? People write: “black is love” Is really black love? Or just black attire. I’m one in a million who experienced it! Makes me feel uncomfortable with my own skin! Yes, society! You are the reason….. I didn’t loved the real me. Installed beauty cameras Applied filters, Just to click fair.
Kallu, kaliya, kali… Hurts, not the words But those hatred expressions You know what I feel when someone says – “Kali hai aacchi nahi lag rahi,” indicating someone. “Aaccha wala photo do na” “Tere liye West Indies se ladki lani hogi” “Aaj tu gora lag raha hai” “Koi fairness cream kyu nahi lagata?”
It’s not your fault! We learn, what society reflects. What does it, really? You need to be fair… To be successful. To be confident. To clear an interview. Simply – black, brown, dark, is useless… And those who endorse fairness creams… SRK, Sonam Kapoor Katrina Kaif, Kareena, Kavya Deepika Padukone, Priyanka Chopra , Virat Kohli… Etc Stop endorsing fairness creams Huge crowd follows you, Think before it… Skin color can’t be changed, Don’t support colorism.
But this is not the truth This is conspiracy, Conspiracy to make every Indian feel Discomfort with our own skin Every skin is loveable, You have to understand… You are precious You are born to be happy Nobody can put you down! Unless you allow them..
Just smile and forget what others want Beauty is not about being fair! It’s about being yourself! It’s about having a pretty soul! Be the faith in humanity Be happy! Be yourself! Be real.
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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