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"What do I make /pack for breakfast/ lunch/ dinner that is nutritious and junior will eat?" is one of the biggest everyday worry of a parent. Here are some easy tips to follow.
“What do I make /pack for breakfast/ lunch/ dinner that is nutritious and junior will eat?” is one of the biggest everyday worry of a parent. Here are some easy tips to follow.
It is Saturday morning. Birds chirp as they sip water from the potted plants in the balcony that I have freshly watered just now. There is very less traffic on the road today as it is the weekend. I take my coffee and sit on the swing in my balcony that I rarely get to sit on. As I sip, I savour the bliss of this unhurried morning. I relish the calm, the silence. And I wonder – why aren’t my everyday mornings like this? Why is it only on Saturdays that I get to experience this beauty of the relaxed morning? And I sigh.
Because I know the answer to that question. I know, that every day, at this time, I am in the kitchen, rushing to get tiffin boxes of breakfast, lunch and snacks ready for my family – coming up with innovative ideas, worrying about portions and running against time to get it all packed and sealed for the day in the meal boxes that my family will carry with them for the long day ahead.
Nutrition in bite sized pieces. That is what I am doing at this time on any other day. And that is what many mothers I know, do too.
Thing is, we women are pretty cool people, happy to eat out and load up on junk until we become parents! When motherhood hits though, we suddenly transform into calorie counting, nutrition enthusiasts who realise that the health and immunity of the family now entirely depends on us! And whether or not we continue with our own haphazard consumption of junk food, we try to ensure that our children are always well-fed and every morsel they eat is nutritious and helps improve their resistance to diseases. And then we start looking at vegetables and fruits differently. What was yucky (or maybe even still continues to be yucky) for us, becomes top priority when it comes to feeding our children. And we turn into our own mothers who force-fed us that broccoli we so hated or the pumpkin curry we so loathed!
But really, nutrition doesn’t have to be yuck! You know that? Well, even I didn’t know it myself. But after being a parent for about a decade and also visiting paediatricians around the city who all agree on this point, I now know.
Do you know these paediatricians get a lot of paediatric as well as ‘parenting’ emergencies? Yes, that is becoming more and more the case, apparently. In fact, they get more parenting emergencies, than paediatric ones (and lot of them from obsessive mums like me)! And I love the point they make about children and nutrition. I love it for its simplicity and for its logic. And trust me, armed with that knowledge, I find my mornings much easier now.
Don’t get me wrong, I still run against time (what can I say, I tend to sleep in despite the alarms ringing persistently on most days); but now I do not spend so much time thinking about the nutritive value of the food that goes in the lunch boxes! How is that?
You see, when we look at packing food in meal boxes, we look at –
Now this is a daunting task for any mother to pack food in children’s meal boxes that they will like and eat. (By children, I also mean to include the older, 30-something children who are popularly known as husbands.)
You see, we always fall into the trap of carbs, protein and fat, when it comes to food. And we have our own notions like oh fat is not good, or proteins are the best or that carbs can be good as well as bad…and a lot of things like that. And here is where we go wrong. All we need to remember is this –
And the best meal should contain all of these to ensure the smooth running of our body.
Now to make things easier for all of us, here are a few helpful tips as promised!
Now tell me, why should meals and nutrition be worrisome anymore?
P.S.
I am not a doctor. Just a mother who has tried and tested things; and rounded these tips up, visiting paediatricians across the town over the past years. So, it’d be great to confirm these with your paediatrician as well, before applying the tips to your little ones.
Happy Parenting!
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