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Olivia Gatwood's 'Ode To My Bitch Face' is a two-minute slam poem that exposes how women’s bodies are constantly subjected to the approval of men.
Olivia Gatwood’s ‘Ode To My Bitch Face’ is a two-minute slam poem that exposes how women’s bodies are constantly subjected to the approval of men.
Pursed lips, flaring nostrils, arched eyebrows and eyes filled with murderous rage which are enough to shut up an annoying person or silence a crying baby — we have all come to associate such a combination of our facial muscles as the ‘Resting Bitch Face’!
Needless to say, the usage of it is quite common and the implications yet more insulting. To address this, slam poet Olivia Gatwood, who writes odes to things she is, or for that matter, any other woman is, supposed to feel ashamed of, wrote one, titled, ‘Ode to My Bitch Face’. The wordings of the poem, and the equally strongly expressed emotions of the poet will force you to think twice before uttering the phrase again in the context of any woman in particular, or a person, in general.
Some people do have a deadpan expression or, the ‘resting bitch face’, in most of the situations. More often than not, you and I might get to hear that so-and-so was proudly flaunting their resting bitch face in front of a teacher or any other person with authority, just to annoy them by conveying a rebellious attitude. Gatwood, however, brings another dimension to it and focuses on how misogyny and objectification of women has been going on since the beginning of time. An expression like this is more or less like a liberation from all the expectations society (read, men) has from them.
Gatwood’s poem is not just mere words, it’s a collective voice and expression of all the women who at some point in their lives, used to smile as brightly as the sun and were full of life, but have chosen to curb their own emotions for fear that someone may just snatch it all away from them. So, the resting bitch face is not a lack of emotion, rather it is an expression that has so many feelings and a context attached to it.
A woman’s job is not just to sit pretty and make the world a better place by just looking beautiful. Each of us here, is in search for a reason, a context upon which to base our entire lives. So if my resting bitch face fails to convey that to you, it is on you, not on me!
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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