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I happened to read Anupama’s When Padma Bani Paula a few years ago and fully enjoyed Anupama’s light hearted way of highlighting ageism. The book, with its strong regional roots, showcased the challenges that a conservatively brought up Padma faces right up to the day of her wedding. And now Anupama is back to narrate another phase of Padma’s life … and how!
Seven years after reinventing herself and marrying Varun, Padma aka Paula is bent on rocking the boat of her blissful wedded life with her mid life crisis.
Our heroine is constantly overwhelmed, fussing about her work and fails to acknowledge her husband and all that he does for her. She annoys the reader so much, which is when you realise she is doing what a ‘normal’ husband in an Indian household does.
Forgetting her spouse’s birthday, been completely absorbed in herself, trying to explain her husband’s work to him, getting friendly with an ex … Padma does it all with panache. And to top it all, Padma is an emotional wreck. She knows no boundaries, meddles in other’s affairs and is unable to deal with her emotions when things go downhill. All the while, our heart goes out to Varun. He is forever patient and understanding, a docile and generous husband and doting father at home. Basically he is this dream of a guy who reminds you a lot of the daily soap heroines that the audience roots for.
Enter Rohit and Jo, a modern couple who stir the pot and add fuel to the burning fire of this dilapidated marriage. Does Padma redeem herself and save her marriage? Or does she choose to divorce and end a broken relationship?
Anupama portrays her characters brilliantly, taking you on an emotional ride with the story. Padma comes across as a perfect anti-hero just by living her life. She makes you laugh out aloud and then think deeply by being just so full of herself every moment of the book.
Read it with an open mind and prepared to be surprised by Padma, who is more than a handful for everyone dealing with her. Also, kudos to Anupama for writing Varun, a sensitive man who also comes with his flaws – a shining example of Men Written by Women.
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I write short stories and blogs when I am not living my cubicle life. I have written four collections of short stories and these are available on Amazon. https://www.amazon.in/Nithya-Rajagopal/e/ read more...
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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