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The Secret Life of Debbie G a wondrous, sensitive graphic novel written from a teenage girl’s perspective.
“…the most dangerous things on earth are not guns, not bullets, not bombs. It’s ideas. I mean, they are positively lethal. They can blow up reputations, assassinate characters, rip apart lives.”
It all started when our young protagonist Debbie wanted to mess with the Invincibles (the superbrats) #SorryNotSorry. But one thing led to another, and before she knew it, she was hitting out at everyone, even the Incredibles (the geeks) and the Invisibles (the losers). Seriously, her online persona is starting to mess with her head.
The Secret Life of Debbie G is the story of a sixteen-year-old who becomes an overnight sensation. Except it’s her online persona that hits the big time. In a world where the number of likes, comments, shares, DMs and followers determine a teenager’s sense of self-worth, how will her newly-acquired celebrity status influence her behaviour and affect her emotional health?
Soundarya (aka Arya) is visiting her grandparents in Chennai for the summer with her mother Aishwarya. She is an angry teenager who is mad at everything as is typical of her age and is permanently glued to her phone.
A visit from Tarun uncle, her classmate Kiara’s dad, comes as a surprise until her mother reveals she is considering a proposal of marriage from him. Arya is heartbroken that her mother kept it a secret all this time. In addition, she learns her father is not coming to visit her that summer as his new wife is pregnant. Feeling all alone, she turns to her friends Nikhil and Rukhsar for support.
Aishwarya and Tarun plan a family get-together in Chennai where he arrives with his parents and two children – Kiara the superbrat, and Kiaan, Arya’s one-time crush. Needless to say, the meeting turns out to be a disaster described superbly in the graphic novel.
Back in Delhi, school has started and Arya makes sure she stays out of sight to avoid being bullied and body-shamed but the negative comments find their way to sting her. Fed up of being the butt of their jokes, she creates an anonymous online personality to troll the trolls and becomes an instant sensation. But in robbing the high and mighty of their pride and giving the hoi polloi something to laugh about, could she have stretched the limits of fairness to the point of no return? Is her anonymity getting the better of her?
In this coming of age graphic novel, Vibha Batra draws on the urban Indian family dynamic and raises pertinent questions that matter to young children with impressionable minds. Parental divorce, body shaming, bullying, gender and sexuality are some of the key topics she discusses through Arya’s story and attempts to offer a path to understand them rather than dictating right and wrong.
I loved the concept of the book and the medium the author uses to raise awareness around a global mental health pandemic. At the same time, I felt the flow of the story was inconsistent leaving the narrative rushed. I also thought the introduction of Arya’s anonymous persona, which is the premise of the book, past the halfway mark was too late to effectively explore the issues it set out with.
As a graphic novel, I liked the overall styling of the book with the balance of text and images. The jet black illustrations, however, seemed to overpower the emotional arc of the story creating a disconnect between the two. Maybe some black paired with more watered greys would have softened the appearance.
At an age, when the young and younger are increasingly searching for validation online, this book dissects its effects on their mental health and development as well as their understanding of life.
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Ashima has been in love with the written word for as long as she can remember. She is a compulsive reader and occasionally reviews books as well. She finds writing in any form to be read more...
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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