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Have a powerful women, what better tool to use to discredit her in a patriarchal society like ours but to slut shame her? In this, #IStandWithAtishi.
As the election campaign heats up in its last phase in Delhi, social media today remained abuzz by a derogatory pamphlet being circulated in the East Delhi constituency defaming and abusing AAP candidate Atishi allegedly by her opponents from the ruling party at the centre.
The screenshot circulating on twitter of a pamphlet uses derogatory language for her and her colleagues at her party and goes on to demean her origins and personal life. As is always the case with most such deplorable “slut shaming” cases she is being allegedly labelled as sexually promiscuous and words like “prostitute” being used for her in an absolutely insulting manner.
Mr @GautamGambhir! You want to be elected by distributing these handbills against me and Atishi? Shame on you Mr Gambhir! People of East Delhi know me and Atishi very well but through these handbills you have introduced yourself. This is your character. pic.twitter.com/o4ADTsDcwT — Manish Sisodia (@msisodia) May 9, 2019
Mr @GautamGambhir! You want to be elected by distributing these handbills against me and Atishi?
Shame on you Mr Gambhir!
People of East Delhi know me and Atishi very well but through these handbills you have introduced yourself. This is your character. pic.twitter.com/o4ADTsDcwT
— Manish Sisodia (@msisodia) May 9, 2019
In a press conference later in the day Atishi choked several times reading out the said pamphlet to the members of the press and condemned it. This is not the first time a woman in public life in India is being shamed like this and sex work and prostitution used derogatorily to intimidate.
The hashtag #IStandWithAtishi has thousands of tweets condemning the language of the pamphlet and also urging the people to reflect as to how we view our women and reduce all their achievements and failures to just their sexuality and private lives.
Gautam Gambhir, ex-Indian cricketer and her adversary in her constituency has tweeted denying the charges and declaring that he hasn’t done this. He and his supporters allege that the pamphlet is an election gimmick by Atishi’s own party to get sympathy votes.
My Challenge no.2 @ArvindKejriwal @AtishiAAP I declare that if its proven that I did it, I will withdraw my candidature right now. If not, will u quit politics? — Chowkidar Gautam Gambhir (@GautamGambhir) May 9, 2019
My Challenge no.2 @ArvindKejriwal @AtishiAAP I declare that if its proven that I did it, I will withdraw my candidature right now. If not, will u quit politics?
— Chowkidar Gautam Gambhir (@GautamGambhir) May 9, 2019
Since ages in conventional societies like ours men have assumed the role of issuing authority of character certificates to women, so the first patriarchal privilege to be “withdrawn” often in instances of conflict with a woman is the withdrawal of this “character certificate” by men.
Even the current POTUS Donald Trump used the phrase “nasty woman” in all its derogatory and sexual innuendo to put his opponent Hillary Clinton down during the US presidential elections.
In India too there have been several instances of derogatory language being used for women in public life by men in positions of eminence and power.
It is time gender becomes a non-factor in electing able leaders and election debates being restrained to political ideology, and policies and not personal vile attacks outraging the modesty and reputation of a woman.
Several eminent women have dissected the language and various aspects of the pamphlet and found it so outrageous, famous columnist Seema Goswami tweeted:
Why is this BJP guy so worried about who Atishi’s husband is? And why her husband isn’t part of her campaign? Short answer: because weak men like these can’t ever deal with a woman on her own terms. They can only see her in relation to her male relatives. #shame #IStandWithAtishi https://t.co/yqhM6EygyQ — Seema Goswami (@seemagoswami) May 9, 2019
Why is this BJP guy so worried about who Atishi’s husband is? And why her husband isn’t part of her campaign? Short answer: because weak men like these can’t ever deal with a woman on her own terms. They can only see her in relation to her male relatives. #shame #IStandWithAtishi https://t.co/yqhM6EygyQ
— Seema Goswami (@seemagoswami) May 9, 2019
India’s deeply sexist and misogynist political culture has once again proven that for women there is a long battle to be won, those on their side want to “protect” or “project” her as sister/daughter/mother and those opposing her still stoop low to assassinate her character.
BJP Candidate from East Delhi Gautam Gambhir has sent a defamation notice to Delhi CM and AAP supremo Arvind Kejriwal, his deputy Manish Sisodia, and Atishi Marlena, asking them to withdraw statements and apologise, or else legal proceedings would be initiated against them.
The legal notice demands that the people named apologise and withdraw their statements, or face legal action.
Editor’s note: This is a developing story, and will be updated periodically.
Pooja Priyamvada is an author, columnist, translator, online content & Social Media consultant, and poet. An awarded bi-lingual blogger she is a trained psychological/mental health first aider, mindfulness & grief facilitator, emotional wellness trainer, reflective read more...
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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