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Describing herself as a late rebel, Nayantara Mallya is inspired to write precisely because of the status quo and our unthinking acceptance of it!
Describing herself as a ‘late rebel’, Nayantara Mallya is inspired to write precisely because of the status quo and our unthinking acceptance of it!
Every month, we recognise 3 among 2500+ contributors, as featured Author of the Month – for their writing that keeps readers engrossed and makes us all think afresh. This month, Nayantara Mallya is one of our 3 featured authors. A writer whose defining feature is Clarity, Nayantara is able to sift the incidentals from what truly matters, and bring it to readers from a fresh perspective. You can view her writing on Women’s Web here.
Authors are often asked this question, but everyone has their own reasons, very personal to them. So, why do you write?
I write to think over things, to articulate my thoughts to myself. I am a very objective person and can often see an issue from everyone’s perspectives, which can be a problem to figure out where exactly I stand, so I write to get it sorted in my head. I write because the written word is my world; there’s nothing as powerful, and once a thought is down in black and white, the greys fade away.
What do you enjoy reading? Does any of it help your writing?
I don’t get to read much these days, but recent books I have read are Sapiens, The Story of the World in 100 Species, and Abundance: The Future is Better than you Think. It indirectly does help my writing, because I need to understand the world through its history and biology, and also stay positive and hopeful for change.
When it comes to writing on/for/about women, what questions and issues drive you the most?
I did not rebel nor did I question as a teen; I’m doing that relatively late in life. I get charged to write when I see women accepting the status quo of their relationships, societal norms and burdens thrust on them, and abuse and exploitation.
Could you narrate an issue or incident in your life which you think was gender related, and you handled it in a way that has made you proud.
Exactly a year back, there was an issue of discrimination in my apartment complex and the tenant family being discriminated against had everything going against them. They were from a minority religion, the mother of the house was single mothering as her husband worked abroad, the owner of the apartment was also a single woman, and the subject of the discrimination was a young man struggling with mental health issues. It was horrifying to me to watch my neighbours try to force (through intimidation) this home-owner to evict her tenants, claiming that the young man was a danger to the neighbours. A young boy in the family was studying for his high school exams, the eldest brother of the siblings had quit his job to come and help his mother. I, with 3 other women, took a stand and fought for their right to stay, and for the home owner to take her own decision to allow them to complete their lease. This was definitely about gender, but also about religion and mental health. There is nothing that gets my blood boiling more than discrimination this blatant, and I’m proud that I was part of the group that pushed right back.
Name 3 other writers or bloggers on Women’s Web whose writing you enjoy reading.
I enjoy Sandhya Renukamba’s and Aparna’s posts. I also like the bold flavour of Akshata Ram’s writing.
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I wanted to scream with excitement that my daughter chose to write about her ambition and aspirations over everything else first. To me, this was one of those parenting 'win' moments.
My daughter turned eight years old in January, and among the various gifts she received from friends and family was an absolutely beautiful personal journal for self-growth. A few days ago, she was exploring the pages when she found a section for writing a letter to her future self. She found this intriguing and began jotting down her thoughts animatedly.
My curiosity piqued and she could sense it immediately. She assured me that she would show me the letter soon, and lo behold, she kept her word.
I glanced at her words, expecting to see a mention of her parents in the first sentence. But, to my utter delight, the first thing she had written about was her AMBITION. Yes, the caps here are intentional because I want to scream with excitement that my daughter chose to write about her ambition and aspirations over everything else first. To me, this was one of those parenting ‘win’ moments.
It's well known how diplomatic and professional Priyanka Chopra is. Why would she want to stir the hornet’s nest when everyone’s happy in their personal space?
Priyanka Chopra (PC) did something completely out of character. She’s usually known for being articulate and mostly diplomatic, unless she wants to give sassy comebacks to people who try to put her on the spot or ‘in her place’.
She’s someone who’s never fought the establishment because she understands you can’t win against it anyway. But you can work around it to get your way to the top. She’s a thorough professional and team player.
For someone like Priyanka Chopra who’s never played victim so far, to admit being the scapegoat of petty politics in the Hindi film industry was refreshing. It’s good to see this unfiltered, vulnerable side of her for a change. PC revealed one of her reasons for shifting to Hollywood on the podcast, Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard.
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