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Keep your personal documents in order, ladies. You never know when you might need something, and end up in a sticky place. Like I did after my divorce.
Our life is bookended by documents. We’re given a birth certificate after our first breath and a death certificate after our last. In between, we accumulate innumerable certificates, contracts, deeds, diplomas, licenses, registrations, titles and so on.
It seems like just yesterday that my marriage went up in flames; when I first realized that I was alone, with no compass or road map to follow. All that I had in hand were concerns, worries, financial debts, finding a place to live and paying for it all by myself, facing the judgmental society and the bills. God, the bills!
There was so much to fret over, I didn’t have the time or energy to stress over some of the finer points of household management.
Getting my documentation in order fell far down the list. And it wasn’t until yesterday when school authorities asked me for a legal document for obtaining a degree certificate for my daughter, that I realized, “God, how could I have missed that!” How the heck did I overlook that?!
Adjusting to life as a single parent involves facing numerous energy-sapping challenges that may not have existed before your divorce or your spouse’s death.
But it is important that you have complete and very organized files with all documents. Important documents include, but are not limited to passports, birth certificates, financial documents, identity cards, insurance policies, health policies and most importantly EACH AND EVERY School record of your child. It’s important to ensure that the full, legal name is used in the same spelling in every document.
These hard-to-replace documents should ideally be kept in a safe drawer. It’s not enough to merely have these documents. It is important to back up all these documents in digital formats.
Having learnt my lesson, I urge you to streamline your documents from a jumble of papers and folders into a single storehouse. Else, get ready to run from pillar to post, through the heat and the endless queues, just like I am doing right now.
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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