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She Hulk series seems to say that even a woman with a flourishing career and super powers is happy only when she is validated by a man.
A comic fan from my childhood, I never miss any superhero movies or series, no matter whether they deserve viewing or not. After nearly 50 years of reading and connecting with comic characters, I feel they deserve a view, even if it is derivative characters like Batgirl, Supergirl, or She Hulk.
When ‘She Hulk’ was aired, I looked forward to every Wednesday to check out the new episodes.
It began well, nothing to amaze viewers, but it was not disappointing either. There were few moments like when She Hulk rants about the problems women face day in and day out, which showed how different the world out there is for women.
Of course it did not go down well for many. The social media response to the sexualized post credit dance scene was very negative as well. From CGI to many other things, social media’s response to the show has not been good.
*Spoilers Alert!
The problem for me began when Jen was convinced and started to check out dating sites. All of a sudden, the smart lawyer became a person which doesn’t suit the character that has been created by the comics or series so far.
I started to squirm as I watched Jen become desperate for companionship, to be validated for who she is as Jen, her disappointment at being admired as She Hulk, and other things thrown at the character from all angles. Then comes the ghosting of her by Miller after sleeping with her, following which Jen/She Hulk desperately looks forward to his message.
There is nothing wrong in a woman seeking a relationship or being in love and looking forward to a message after a romantic evening. But the series made it appear as though someone who has always been an independent career woman was suddenly becoming desperate… maybe because she is already in her 30s?
The man was not a person she had known for long, nor someone who she knew closely. She had been on just few dates with him. To show such an obsession with that encounter was kind of disappointing.
All her dating and other parts of the relationships she has in the series kind of makes it appear that even if a woman has a flourishing career and super powers, finally she is happy only when she is validated by a man. I thought it was only me, but then many of those who watched the series shared that the episodes of Jen and her relationship struggles made them uncomfortable as well.
Then they throw in her one night stand with Daredevil out of nowhere, as though she is sex starved. What follows is what happens everywhere. The guy she trusted and dated earlier, Miller, has taken her naked photo when she is fast asleep. That is shown on the big screen at an award function, which has her parents among the audience. She is branded a slut and insulted at gala show, triggering her anger and showing her as a monster.
Do we really need these portrayals of women and the way society treats them to be aired, even when we are showing them as superheroes? I think the series could have done more justice to Jen/She Hulk and women (especially those who pursue their careers) than it did so far.
The final episode is yet to come, and I hope that they justify the character and make it up to us viewers.
I am Farida Rizwan, 57, Counselor and Psychotherapist working as Senior Curriculum Developer with Chimple Learning. I am the founder of My Giggle Garden, Preschool, and Daycare. I am an ardent blogger @www.chaptersfrommylife.com read more...
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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