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If you are looking for a temporary attraction this post is not for you because this is no quickie.
Who doesn’t like attention and who doesn’t want to be attractive? But what kind of attraction do you want for yourself – a temporary one or a permanent one? If you are looking for a temporary attraction this post is not for you because this is no quickie. You need to spend some time to be attractive and such that the changes remain with you. The things that come quickly leave quick but the things that come slow and with your efforts, they stay with you.
I am going to give you here 9 easy steps to be attractive which will stay with you as long as you want them to.
It is often underrated but it is the most important part of an attractive personality. When you smile you send out positive energy in the universe. People like being around positive and that makes you attractive. There is always a reason to smile, you just have to find it.
Body odour cannot always be controlled but that can result in the biggest disaster or blessing. All that the humans perceive, they go through five senses and smell is the game-changer. So if you are dealing with body odour do invest in a good perfume.
Dress up but for style and respect, not for attention. Make a style statement for yourself and don’t be trendy, be classy. Develop a style and maintain it.
To be able to strike a conversation and talk to people about things, in general, is a quality that can make you really attractive. Your physical attraction isn’t going to get you far if your words and mental strength isn’t appropriate. So read, watch the news, Update your knowledge and become able to strike a conversation efficiently.
Speak positively about everyone. Not only others but also for your self. Your relationships with others would depend on your relationship with yourself. This brings a ring of positive vibes around you and takes you to a good frequency of energy.
Have at least 3 hobbies that do not involve a screen ( meaning phone, tablet, laptop, TV anything.) Having a world outside the digital world makes you different and makes you real. You can play and instrument or get into sports or read a book. Your hobbies outside the digital world will help you build a good and real network.
Be a learner. The people with Know-it-all attitude reach nowhere in life and most of the other people like to stay away from them. Keep educating yourself . join a course. learn something new or specialize in whatever field you are working but keep learning. If you cannot afford to go for further education at least save for it and keep learning through other sources. Every successful leader is a reader.
Take out time for friends who need you, the children who need guidance and the elderly who needs companions to talk to. being a support for others will always make you more attractive than any label that you wear.
Be thankful for everything you have in life and also thank people for their presence and support. For even a little help that you get. Say Thank You. Thank you is the most underrated word but its the most powerful too. Being grateful for what you have will bring more of it to you and people like to be with ones who are grateful and peaceful rather than the ones who criticize, complain and crib.
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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