Check out 16 Return-To-Work Programs In India For Ambitious Women Like You!
“I think you don't get to decide what is freedom for someone else. But you were doing that for me, Dev. Eventually, I did the same for you."
Trigger Warning: This deals with domestic violence and may be triggering for survivors.
“Lata, you have again worn this white colour suit? You know I don’t like such colours. Why dress like a widow when I am still alive! You want me dead or what?” Dev taunted her.
“No no… why are you talking like this? I like this colour, but I will go and change. Please don’t say such things.”
Lata, draped in white sari, sitting near the photo of late Mr Dev, was reminiscing about this incident. Dev passed away this morning. He was her world, her duty, her schedule. 20 years of being in a bond, now she was alone.
Lately, Dev’s health had been deteriorating. He was on medicines. Medicines that Lata had to give without fail. Lying in bed each second of every passing day felt confining. Lata was always there, beside him. She didn’t know exactly what she was waiting for.
Lata Sen was a B.Com graduate, trained classical dancer and an avid reader. She also used to write. Once when she was in seventh grade, she had written an essay on “How population growth affects environment”. She had won the competition and her essay was printed in her school magazine. She had brought that magazine with her when she got married to Mr Sharma at the age of 21. People now call her Mrs Dev Sharma.
She got up and went to their room. It felt like a prison. Had it always been like this? She opened her cupboard and took out her pair of ghunghroos which were boxed up here for 18 years. Dev never liked her dancing, he felt it was not elite. She started banging her ghunghroo on the floor, initially slowly, eventually with best of her force until it broke into innumerable pieces. Sitting on the floor, she sobbed. She cried. She yelled. She was numb. She smiled. She laughed.
“I think you don’t get to decide what is freedom for someone else. But you were doing that for me, Dev. Eventually, I did the same for you. You didn’t need these medicines, you were in pain. I set you free.” Lata thought.
She sat comfortably on the bed, opened her book. It was the same magazine, torn around the edges, still had the capability to fix her. She gave a silent read to her essay, then aloud. She wanted to prove to each corner what she is capable of.
She stared at the vacant room, it didn’t feel like prison anymore.
Twenty years of being in chains, now she was free.
From Mrs Dev Sharma to Lata Sen – B.Com graduate, trained classical dancer and an avid reader.
Published here first.
Image source: a still from the film Agnisakshi
read more...
Women's Web is an open platform that publishes a diversity of views, individual posts do not necessarily represent the platform's views and opinions at all times.
Stay updated with our Weekly Newsletter or Daily Summary - or both!
UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
Please enter your email address