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A tale of women’s solidarity is the most inspiring story that will fit so well in the theme of Friendship Day.
A news article published in a newspaper spoke of experiences of women who had gone on the Hajj pilgrimage without mahram, a male companion from the bloodline.
In Quran, Hajj is given great importance and requires all Muslims once in a lifetime to undertake this spiritual journey to Mecca in Saudi Arabia. It is believed that the pilgrimage offers a chance to wipe clean past sins and start anew before God.
However, many women were deprived of this spiritual journey because of Saudi Government restrictions that allowed only those women who were either accompanied by a mahram or as part of a large group of other women.
In 2022, the Saudi Government lifted this restriction. From the quota given to the people of India for the annual pilgrimage, about 4135 accounted for the women without Mahram. According to the Ministry of Minority Affairs, India sent the ‘largest-ever contingent of women without Mahram.
This step towards ‘equal access to religion’ was a giant leap in faith for many women. Some of them were saving for this journey for decades. Like Ramzano Begum, aged 57, lost her husband eight years ago. She had been trying to go on Hajj but the restrictions did not allow her. Another Hajji Haneefa Akhtar was a divorcee from Kashmir. To take Hajj either she would have to wait till her son grew up or one of the brothers offered to take her.
If one thinks that a change in law erases all issues then ask these brave women.
There were many apprehensions and fear of the unknown. How to read the signs, how to board the flight, and how to survive on their own for more than a month in a foreign land.
A woman shared – “My husband told me that I may not return alive from the Hajj.”
In this sense, this journey was no longer a spiritual journey but also a journey to conquer societal and mental blocks.
A significant step towards this solidarity of women was the all-woman flight by Air India from Kozhikode to Jeddah. The flight had an all-woman cabin crew and pilots. Even the ground staff and the baggage handlers were all women.
The women shared how they came together to help each other, even for a seemingly simple task of using a water purifier. The educated ones helped those who could not read and write. They made human-chain to help others to perform rituals.
I am sure after this journey; the women came back fulfilled not only spiritually but much more. This story sends a message to all of us – to support others in whatever way you can. Be it smiling at the woman feeling out of place in the crowd or cheering up your competitor who got the prize instead of you.
“You are truly empowered when your empowerment empowers others”
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Vartika Sharma Lekhak is a published author based in India who enjoys writing on social issues, travel tales and short stories. She is an alumnus of JNU and currently studying law at Symbiosis Law School, read more...
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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