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Women tend to minimise their own achievements due to patriarchal conditioning, especially small business / home business owners. Let's begin to value ourselves.
Some movies are like onions. No, not because they make your cry. Well, that too! But because they have layers and layers of hidden treasures within them which do not always get uncovered at one go.
I was watching English Vinglish with my daughter the other day. This movie sashayed into the list of the best movies of Sridevi with elan. It goes without saying that I had loved the movie when it was released but I never got around to watching it again.
A repeat watch of the movie several years and a few grey hairs later made me realise that English Vinglish is packed with so many more brilliant moments than what I had deciphered back then. Without trying too hard, it throws various life lessons our way, if only we are willing to catch the pearls of wisdom.
As an entrepreneur today, one of the scenes that hit me differently was the one in which Shashi (the protagonist) is acknowledged as an entrepreneur by her tutor during her English language class.
I run an NGO which helps women with limited resources to upskill themselves and I realised that so many women, like Shashi, downplay their achievements and accomplishments. Sometimes, because of conditioning and sometimes, because of the attitude of society towards them in general.
In the movie, Shashi sells laddoos which is a legit business involving back-breaking work, but it is only when her tutor recognizes her as a businesswoman that it dawns on her that there is more to what she has been doing so passionately. That she is more. That she can do more.
‘I am just following my passion, nothing much.’
‘I am just selling some items from home, no big deal.’
‘I am just running a small platform online, nothing great.’
‘Hey! It is a tiny team of 2 members. Not a company.’
I hear these kinds of statements from time to time, and it makes me sad. Scratch that. It makes me extremely sad. These women have humungous talent, clear vision, awe-inspiring dedication and yet, despite having all that it takes to be taken seriously, they are dismissed by many – at times even their own friends and family members – as ‘wannabes’ or ‘timepass hobby-pursuers’.
Till when are we as a society going to be unaware and biased, and we women let ourselves be taken for granted?
The entrepreneurship scenario is fast-changing, and the joke is on who has not kept up with it and made the home-grown/small business owners feel any less than what they are. I am sure even a few men taking to entrepreneurship face this, but the attitude towards women is worse which makes some of them hesitant to own like they own it.
Shashi fortunately met people who respected and valued her and made her discover her own worth. But to the women entrepreneurs who are reading this post – I do not know when the naysayers around you will change or whether they even would, but know this, please.
If you are selling a product or service, you are an entrepreneur. Period. Doesn’t matter what the team size is. Doesn’t matter what the scale is. Doesn’t matter if you have just started.
You are not ‘just’ anything. You are ‘more’, and you are worth more. Learn, grow, slay and be the boss that you are!
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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