#CelebrateingtheRainbow at the workplace – share your stories of Pride!
Just because we love to make assumptions about women, doesn’t mean they’re true.
Just because I cook well,
doesn’t mean I was born for the hob.
Just because I have kids,
doesn’t mean parenting is my only job.
Just because I ‘get’ detail,
doesn’t mean I was born for the weeds.
Just because I don’t ask,
doesn’t mean I don’t have needs.
Just because I’m single,
doesn’t mean I’m available.
Just because my dreams are big,
doesn’t mean they’re unscalable.
Just because we love assumptions,
doesn’t mean they’re true.
Just because some plans just died,
doesn’t mean dreams must die too.
Photo by Ryan Moreno on Unsplash
First published here.
I am Vinita Ramtri and I live in London. You can reach me via email on vinitaramtri.com or phone on 00447817256077.
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