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Apurva Purohit: To Achieve What You Want, Never Look At Your Career As An ‘Option’

Posted: January 21, 2020

Business maven Apurva Purohit tells writer Anusha Singh why women need to fix the leaky pipeline in middle management before breaking the glass ceiling.

Ranked one of the most Powerful Women in Business, Apurva Purohit, President Jagran Prakashan Limited and author of ‘Lady You’re The Boss’ shares her nuanced views on why career should always be about ‘AND,’ never ‘either/or.’

A journey of risks and learning

You have a stellar career of 30 years, from IIM Bangalore days to becoming the CEO of Radio City and now the President of Jagran Prakashan. When you look back, how do you perceive the journey?

In the hindsight, three things stand out for me. First, I took a fair amount of intelligent risks which other people at my level or position didn’t take.

Two, I had only one focus – ‘Will I learn something in this new role?’ If not, I’d rather not take that role even if it offered more money, status, promotion, or designation.

And three, from the gender lens, career has always been number one priority for me, and never an option. Even when my son was born, it never crossed my mind that I could stay at home. And really that’s how you compete in a male dominated world because for guys, career is always number one.

Hence women who feel that career is an option will not achieve what they want, and that becomes visible at the middle management level where women at the cusp of maternity drop off. Even before we talk of breaking the ‘glass ceiling,’ we have to first fix that leaky pipeline.

Woman can be hunters too!

It is a result of a fundamental socialisation from childhood that the role you play as a wife, as a mother, as the primary care giver, is more important than your own needs and your individuality. Hence women suffer from a constant guilt. The world is not designed for women to be hunters.

Even while women are on maternity leave or working on flexi-timings, men are not making the environment friendly for young mothers. What are we doing to encourage men to take care of the kids? How are we grooming them to be good fathers and equal partners?

What does that leaky pipeline mean for an organisation?

When a smart and talented woman leaves, that’s not good from a productivity angle for anybody. Plus, it affirms an impression with the male colleagues that “Aisa hi hoga.”

Male managers are hence hesitant to recruit young women. And when there are no women role models at the top in the organisation, the younger women feel that they can grow only to a certain level. It becomes a virtuous cycle.

Stand up. Be brave. Speak up.

What do you say to these 25-35 year old working women?

Firstly, you cannot outsource the decision to continue/discontinue working to your family members. Only you can make that choice. I’ve written my latest book Lady, You’re The Boss! to tell women that they have to take control of their own destiny. Many a times there are subconscious biases playing in their own mind.

They don’t celebrate their own successes or say it is because of me that something happened. They stay quiet in an argument just because the other person has a louder voice. They allow big and small choices to be made by the males around them such as who I should marry, what food I should eat in the evening, what serial I should watch… So you have to stand up and be brave.

And secondly, there is no difference between women who have stuck on and done well, and you. For example, I didn’t have special mentors or special opportunities. It’s just that they were very clear that ‘I will have a good family life AND I will have a great career.’

In my first book Lady, You’re not a Man!: The Adventures Of A Woman at Work I’ve explained personal and professional life integration. Especially with the way we are connected all the time today, you cannot say that 9-5 I will do this and 5-10 I will do that. You have to seamlessly integrate both. It’s not that difficult.

True independence = financial independence

Over the span of your career, you’ve seen scenarios change. How do you look at India Inc. today?

Well many organisations are becoming cognisant that the more diverse they are, the better it is from a business perspective. Diversity is profitable.

And I’m also seeing that millennial girls entering organisations are quite determined to have a career. They focus on their individuality and desires. Of course I’m talking of a particular socio-economic class.

However, one place where I’m not seeing a change is that most men are still not getting accustomed to their girlfriends and wives having a career. Unless they have working mothers which a very small segment, they are not equality sensitive. Men need to do lot more.

A message for women entering the corporate world?

True independence is financial independence. You have to stand up on your feet. Any other independence such as I can choose what I wear, I have not changed my sir name etc., are mere semantics.

If you are someone interested in being a boss lady, Apurva Purohit will be speaking at the Orange Flower Festival in Mumbai on Sat, Jan 25, 2020!

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Anusha Singh is a lawyer turned corporate communications consultant and writer. She works with organizations

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