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With online schooling becoming the new 'normal', due to the covid-19 pandemic, parents need to have empathy - for teens and their teachers too!
With online schooling becoming the new ‘normal’, due to the covid-19 pandemic, parents need to have empathy – for teens and their teachers too!
A new phase in life began today for me and my 13-year old boy. He attended his first day of ‘online School’; not just some stand-alone class, but the full-fledged school as a ninth-grader.
The timetable shows me 4 periods a day, 45 min each, with 15 min breaks after every period.
Here are my thoughts so far on online schooling.
Being one of those parents, who restricts the child’s screen time to as minimal as possible, I am actually happy with this arrangement for now. I was more concerned about his evening playtime and our lunchtime together (given that he is actually home!) being eroded.
I hope that this 8.30 AM – 1.30 PM schedule will ensure that there is discipline, all the while providing room for other activities. I think this might work. We can make it work!
I am impressed with the way his school communicates with parents through circulars on the parents portal. Yes, this means a lot more work for parents but that’s expected anyway!
Being a teen is hard enough. Being a teen during times of Corona is harder. Being a teen guinea pig for full-fledged online schooling is probably the toughest. The charm of teen school – friendships, going out together, roaming around together etc. have all been snatched away.
So as parents, I think we have an added responsibility of hearing them out, encouraging conversations, nudging them to stay in touch with friends and maintain healthy friendships/social connections.
Sexuality education cannot be a choice anymore, given that these children are going to have Internet all through the day and are free to use it as well! I hope parents of every single preteen and teen realize and understand. The lack of this understanding would only lead to helicopter parenting, hovering over the child all the time and eroding any semblance of personal space.
I am glad that there was a mention of students respecting the online privacy of fellow students in the school guidelines. For those who still find it embarrassing to broach this subject, there are workshops conducted by NGOs for teens.
I do hear several cases of parents sitting around for the online classroom sessions. While the intention might be good, just to monitor the child in the initial days, we also need to understand that it is extremely embarrassing and pressurising for a teacher.
Teachers are dealing with a very difficult, steep learning curve themselves, I feel parents should cut them some slack. If one is worried about tech hiccups, trust me, the younger generation is way better than us when it comes to adapting to new tech!
As parents, we should also learn to respect and teach our children to respect teachers’ private space. No messaging them after 4 p.m or before 8 a.m, unless it is an absolutely burning priority.
So, on the first morning of online school, I readied the boy and got him seated by 8 15 am. I was waiting around for some correspondence as it was Day 1. At 8 25 AM, his teacher messaged the class – “Good morning students. Your first class today will be History.”
As I got ready to leave the room, the kiddo exclaimed, “What can be a better way to start my new school year than with my favourite subject!”
Fingers Crossed!
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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