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Have you ever struggled to convey your emotions, or felt like your words don’t do your feelings justice? It’s a common issue we all face. Real communication demands a level of vulnerability that requires us to accept the possibility of rejection and pain. When we confront the truth of our reality, we may realise that we have been living a lie.
We often fear being disliked, so we present a false persona to others. We try to impress those around us by conforming to their expectations, which can take us further away from our true selves. We tend to relate to people who are similar to us and dislike those who are different.
Our behaviour is often influenced by societal conditioning aimed at benefiting specific groups, and we have accepted these without questioning them. However, we must open ourselves up to show our authentic selves to the world. This will allow us to reveal a side of ourselves that the world has not yet seen. It may bring us closer to some people while distancing us from others. This process may require us to re-evaluate our existing relationships and re-establish boundaries. Letting go of some relationships may be challenging, but it is often necessary.
Despite the challenges, there are numerous benefits to being vulnerable. It allows us to connect with people who accept us for who we are, without expecting us to be perfect. These people make us feel secure, loved, and accepted. We must seek out those who can handle our sensitivity and share our deepest secrets. Once we find them, we can be our true selves, and experience a sense of inner peace and tranquillity.
In conclusion, vulnerability is crucial for effective communication. While it is not possible to be vulnerable with everyone, we should seek out those who will accept us for who we are. By doing so, we can create meaningful relationships that enrich our lives.
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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