Why Is The Voice Of Muslim Women Not Heard In Discussions Trying To ‘Rescue’ Them?

In discussion about the ‘oppression’ of Muslim women and what should be done, why is the voice of Muslim women not heard the the do-gooders? 

Recently, I happened to be a part of a clubhouse discussion with most of the audience concerned with the ‘freedom of Muslim women in the 21^st century’. The discussion was a sequel of another discussion that had happened the previous night, with a number of speakers who were Muslim men.

This time, the discussion turned out to be a projection of two opposite parties’ ideas that explored the magnitude of freedom obtained or to be obtained by Muslim women as a whole.

Did the discussion address the real issue?

I appreciate the liberal views about a woman’s right and absence of choice in an attempt to wake Muslim women up from blindly trusting the conservative approach to make a rule book about their freedom. But the lack of representation of women, who are Muslims, made the talk move in circles rather than having an actual discussion.

When a complex idea that comprises two powerful terms like ‘Muslim’ and ‘Women’ is explored, unless they are included in the discussion, it just polarises people, neglecting to address the actual issues.

I’ll tell you how.

Muslim women don’t need ‘protection’; we need to have our voice heard

A benevolent sexist approach that states ‘women should be protected inside the religion’ is of course concerned about women.

A more radical feminist approach that tries to free the ‘tied up’ women seems like another version of the former, in a slightly progressive way.

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Left with no choice, and no voice is the diverse population of Muslim Women who ‘choose’ to wear or not wear a scarf, sit inside their home or not, or perform or not the five daily prayers. While feminism is all about having our own voices, a Muslim feminist seems like a paradox, taking a conservative and liberal approach hand in hand.

Faith is personal, so stop dictating us

Choosing one’s own faith is a right, when choosing a religion is not in most of the cases. While religion is an institution, faith can be personal and can make an impact on individual politics.

While trying to speak for a particular set of people, especially inside a community, ‘freedom of choice and voice’ should take a primary seat rather than the generic principles or notions.

It further varies when you start to consider the variance in opinions and contexts from inside the same group. Just like shades of greys are often neglected while projecting black or white as the right thing!

Image source: a still from the film Lipstick Under My Burkha

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