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Live and let live because if your son’s wife is happy, there are higher chances she will make a happier and loving daughter-in-law and vice-versa!
Today I dedicate this post to all those relatives & in-laws who have an in-depth experience & curiosity to interfere in other’s life…and when I say In-Laws, I refer to both sides…A boy and a girl marry and become Man and Wife – they are both educated, financially independent! Isn’t it strange that two individuals who are considered adult enough to enter matrimony and bear their own offspring, are intruded upon by constant prying by parents?
I wouldn’t want to be biased and blame only the boy’s side of parents but actually in more cases it is true that parents & relatives do interfere so much so that they become a troublesome for the couple to stay TOGETHER!
It’s unfortunate that even in today’s time very few parents accept their kids are grown up and they need to take their own decision. Why are you involved to make things worst if nothing good you are able to do? Why are you even trying to put negative thoughts in their minds when the couple having tough time?? If a couple wants to have a child or want to live a child-free life that is entirely their decision(Don’t interfere..don’t point out anyone’s fault there..don’t give them panic attacks)
At the same time, if a man is still a boy who hasn’t grown out of his mother’s lap then he definitely isn’t eligible to marry. If a man doesn’t know how to strike a balance between relationships he isn’t mature enough to marry. If he still needs advice on how and where he needs to spend his salary he probably is still a toddler.
To the Guys, Your wife is not your mother and no woman would ever want to be. A wife deserves an exclusive right and place in her husband’s life just as his mother already has. She is not a replacement, she has her own place and importance in your life.
So with all due respect, we all love our mothers and the bond is irreplaceable be it a son or a daughter….But at the same time, it is our responsibility to make our parents understand what is wrong and take a stand for the person you love and married..
Lastly, our parents generation have suffered, our generation too have suffered and is suffering….Hopefully we won’t let our Kids generation to suffer and devastate their life & happiness!
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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