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Taboos around periods are outdated, and should be relegated to history. A woman's recounts her thoughts on these.
Taboos around periods are outdated, and should be relegated to history. A woman’s recounts her thoughts on these.
Being a seventies child, I had witnessed those times closely when monthly cycles used to be equivalent to mental and physical trauma in our society, as tradition was uppermost, and awareness about menstruation was limited.
I really never understood what the fuss was all about! After all, it was something natural.
I must say, I was one of those lucky ones where we had no separate rules for women and girls during those days.To be very honest even that time we (three sisters) never had any restrictions in our family for doing Puja or entering the kitchen. It was just like any day!
I knew about a few conservative families and for them, those three days were like a curfew for women. Women of those families were not allowed to go to temples or to worship at home. Entering the kitchen was another taboo. They were treated differently with a food served separately and sleeping in isolation, and apparently to maintain hygiene everything vessel that they used had to be washed again before being put away. Really, this sounds weird today, and nothing less than discrimination!
But for me, it was never a restriction of any sort and I will also make sure that my next generation will not carry this baggage forward. I have never barred myself from going to temple or cooking, or doing anything else I want to do.
But the scene is not yet completely changed. Some people still expect a woman to become an outcast for those 3-5 days. Why don’t they understand and walk with the time and with the positive changes around? Don’t they want a woman to come out of this medieval practice?
Women are now more confident and have freedom of choice. They are everywhere, in space, in an army, in navy and every day touching new heights of success. If a few people are still bent upon their old tradition of outcasting menstruating ladies then it is time to change.
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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