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The most precious right of a person is freedom. Dependency on others creates a situation of exploitation. In each work, we always wish to be independent. But, is this true in case of marriage?
Parents spend huge money in the name of marriage, specially bride side. Doesn’t bride parents know that they should not spend more money on marriage? Of course, they know. It’s a kind of fear regarding this issue. Their mind thinks about daughter’s happiness. They think if they do not perform marriage lavishly, their daughter might face difficulties in her in laws home. But for how many days we have to live in fear?
Education, food, clothing, shelter and some things are basic requirements. So, they are provided by parents, fine. But why marriage? Why can’t bride and groom spend their earned money for marriage. Let them decide whether their marriage should be simple, moderate or lavish according to their budget. Marrying couple have to take this step boldly and their respective parents should support this decision.
In society, this kind of decision is not at all supported. First thing, our society is still a patrarchial. Second, youngsters are demotivated like, this decision is against the culture and tradition.Third, inferiority in women in discussing the issues when the topic of marriage arrives.
Necessity of Aatmanirbhar Vivaha
It\’s the time to change and there were many social reasons for the previous lifestyle. Past is past, now the youngsters should make a bold decision and they should be role model to others.
Aatmanirbhar Vivah concept may look small, may be ignored or people may respond negatively. But definitely, the society gets more stable.
Aatmanirbharta is not only for country. It’s for every home, every individual!
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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