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Why do we need to use tropes of mental illness, addiction, violence that breaks a woman, to show her as a strong character that then 'rises' from these ashes to avenge herself?
Why do we need to use tropes of mental illness, addiction, violence that breaks a woman, to show her as a strong character that then ‘rises’ from these ashes to avenge herself?
I dread any film that has animals in it because they are discardable plot devices used only to twang on the poignancy heartstring.
If there’s a dog, they will be brutally killed for no fault of theirs (John Wick, Pariyerum Perumal), same for horses (Black Beauty), birds (Harry Potter, Hedwig), fish (every fish tank in film history), bears, snakes, dinosaurs, King Kong, Godzilla etc.
We normalise animal cruelty and suffering just so we are then free to treat these sentient beings as disposable.
Similarly I’m now terrified of films with ‘strong female characters’, characters who must be beaten figuratively or literally to a pulp before they rise as proverbial Phoenixes. These usually mean there will be a woman whom they will proceed to break at will (rape, violence) for the first half of the film and then they will build her into an avenging angel either real or supernatural in the latter half.
In an endlessly protracted scene the protagonist in the eponymous film Bulbul, is beaten half to death by her husband and then raped unto death by her brother-in-law while she lies paralysed. She then turns into a Chudail (witch) who wears skimpy blouseless shortie sarees (a la Zeenat Aman in Satyam Shivam Sundaram) while hunting evil men.
Ultimately she is hunted down by the one man she ever loved. The film always panders to the male gaze, while posturing as a feminist film.
I had resisted watching Queen’s Gambit series on Netflix for this very reason until recently and it did not disappoint me. A fiction, even fantasy, did it need to have a beleaguered orphan, drug addict, tortured drunk character?
Can we not imagine strong women without having serious character flaws? And even if she absolutely had to have defects, could time not have been spent on examination and not magical resolution in the nick of time?
Addictions are severe mental illnesses that ruin people and homes and societies. People die of addictions. It is a lifelong, uphill battle to overcome one and even then you are always teetering on the precipice, all your life, just one puff, one drink away from devastation.
This is beautifully portrayed in the television sitcom Mom, when Anna Farris’s character is rescued by a phone call from her mentor just as she’s at rock bottom, looking at a drink longingly.
But in Queen’s Gambit, Beth Harmon switches it off and on at will, particularly when the filmmakers want to showcase her panties. When it comes to a woman, even her pain and suffering must be eroticised.
Queen’s Gambit is reasonably well made. I particularly loved the relationship between mother and daughter.
If only they hadn’t chosen the well-worn trope of counter balancing Beth’s prodigious talent with moral decrepitude. As one reporter tells her, “Creativity and psychosis often go hand in hand.” Why behen?
It’s bad enough that they treat mental health in such a cavalier manner, but to resort to the caricature checklist specifically designed for strong female characters- dark past, broken, but sexy is sneaking in misogyny under the guise of feminism.
Hema Gopinathan left a blight of a corporate career to homeschool her two children. A teacher trained in the Waldorf/ Rudolf Steiner pedagogy, a writer, an artist, a crocheter, Hema spends half her time in read more...
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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