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we all have our own set of challenges, but let’s dig deep within and draw out the powerhouse within us and ask for what we deserve.
Gangubai Kathiawadi is a good film with very good performances, though with a rather linear arc, and is predictable.
But this is not a review. Instead, let me tell you about the 4 things that I found very appealing and applicable to all of us women.
Whether it was Gangubai fighting for respect and inclusion for her profession or whether it is us trying to find an equal footing, we all need that sponsor. Someone who is powerful and can talk for you, even when you are not present.
Gangubai found one in a tough world (Rahim Lala). Hopefully it is easier for us as many leaders today want to be sponsors.
Yes, we are capable of fighting our battles on our own, but we cannot undermine the importance of allies. Friends and supporters who will pull you up and create a more inclusive world.
Gangubai found an ally without even looking for one (the Journalist). We are fortunate to be surrounded by allies who want to make a difference. Don’t shy from taking their support.
Even while battling with her issues, Gangu realized the need to stand up for others like her. Be the change you want to see. As a woman leader (yes, we are all leaders!), stand up for other women!
In a world full of biases, marginalization, and prejudice, Gangu’s rise to power from nothing is remarkable. Where did she find that strength to push through? Through sheer grit and believing in herself. Of course, there were moments of doubt, sacrifice, and vulnerabilities, but she kept at it, without ever giving up. And didn’t hesitate to ask even when she wasn’t coming from a position of strength!
Yes, we all have our own set of challenges, but let’s dig deep within and draw out the powerhouse within us and ask for what we deserve.
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People say that women are the greatest enemies of women. I vehemently disagree. It is the patriarchal mindset that makes women believe in the wrong ideology.
The entire world celebrates International Women’s Day on March 8, 2024. It should be a joyful day, but unfortunately, not all women are entitled to this privilege, as violence against women is at its peak. The experience of oppression pushes many women to choose freedom. As far as patriotism is concerned, feminism is not a cup of tea in this society.
What happens when a woman decides to stand up for herself? Does this world easily accept the decisions of women in this society? What inspires them to be free of the clutches of the oppression that women have faced for ages? Most of the time, women do not get the chance to decide for themselves. Their lives are always at the mercy of someone, which can be their parents, siblings, husband, or children.
In some cases, women do not feel the need to make any decisions. They are taught to obey the patriarchal system, which makes them believe that they are right. In my family, I was never taught to make decisions on my own. It was always my parents who bought dresses and all that I needed.
14 years after her last feature film Dhobi Ghat, storyteller extraordinaire comes up with her new film, Laapataa Ladies, a must watch.
*Some spoilers alert*
Every religion around the world dictates terms to women. The onus is always on women to be ‘modest’ and cover their faces and bodies so men can’t be “tempted”, rather than on men to keep their eyes where they belong and behave like civilized beings. So much so that even rape has been excused on the grounds of women eating chowmein or ‘men will be men’. I think the best Hindi movie retort to this unwanted advice on ‘akeli ladki khuli tijori ki tarah hoti hai’ (an alone woman is like an open jewellery box) came from Geet in Jab We Met – Kya aap gyan dene ke paise lete hain kyonki chillar nahin hain mere paas.
The premise of Laapataa Ladies is beautifully simple – two brides clad in the ghunghat that covers their identity get mixed up on a train. Within this Russian Doll, you get a comedy of errors, a story of getting lost, a commentary on patriarchy’s attitude towards women, a mystery, and a tale of finding oneself, all in one. Done with a mostly light touch that has you laughing and nodding along.
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