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If you are a girl in your 20's, there are some points you have to take a note of if you want to avoid ending up in an exhausting 30's.
ATTENTION!!! young girls. Here are a few things to be noted if you are in your early 20’s
This is one thing which we fail to do. All of us get into this rat-race of studies/job/partnership, we often forget about ourselves. To avoid ending up in a physically and mentally exhausted 30’s, start focusing on yourself.
‘ You are your priority ‘. Repeat that daily and you can see wonders coming in your way.
The pitfall of growing up in an Indian household is that emotional neglect is prime. Never did we get a space to open up about our feelings, manage them, and at times challenge them. If you are one among those, who were deprived of this emotional security, start working on it. Indulge in things that make you happy and at peace.
Go out and find time for those guilty pleasures.
Girls!! Nothing gives you the power which money can give. Small steps matter. Hence start your financial investments as early as possible. I believe, at the end of the day, it matters more than anything else.
Relationships, be it with friends/parents/partners require constant effort for it to be nurtured. YES!!! you have to put in a lot of effort and time. Understand that, there is so much more in a healthy relationship than a few sugar-coated words. Keep the people who allow you to be who you are rather than pulling you down.
And on the top, MARRIAGE can wait.
If your parents never get it right, don’t worry. You don’t have to end up in the same plight. Things may not work as peacefully and silently as it happened in their times. So never settle for something lesser than what you deserve so early in your life.
Keep investing and growing yourself, so that one day you get what you deserve.
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Nidhi is from Kerala currently residing in Chennai. She is in research for the past 3years. She writes about anything that fascinates her and that includes societal issues, relationships, career, mental health, etc. read more...
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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