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Today, countless people turned barbaric. Rivers flowed red. Agonizing wails rang in the air. And despite everything, I survived!
I witnessed a historic moment today—the birth of two nations; rather, the unfortunate partition of a great one. But this story is not about the nations. It is not about the people or the bloodshed. It is about ‘me’—the thread uniting disparate people.
Every day, with the setting sun, Chamberlain Lane in Lahore would come to life. The aroma of fried pakoras and samosas from Khyali Ram’s shop would bring serpentine queues. Aslam’s Halwa shop, Sardar’s Lassi, and Melvin’s Bakery would complete the gastronomic experience.
Sitting on rickety wooden benches, the men-folk would gossip, crack jokes, and laugh wholeheartedly while enjoying the scrumptious snacks and masala chai. Children would run around, bringing hot samosas or jalebis to their mothers waiting at home.
Today, an eerie silence had swallowed the bonhomie.
The dreadful stench of fear, uncertainty, and gloom had replaced the aroma.
The lane was bereft of any activity. The shutters of Khyali Ram’s shop were drawn shut, and so were the curtains in the house above. However, next door, the Moosa household was witnessing a torrent of action. Moosa was fervently occupied. His eyes blazing with fury. His limbs craving for action. In no time, he acquired a few rods and sticks.
“Abbu (Dad), where is Pari?” little Nadia’s voice cut through the tension. Hidden behind the heavy curtains, she eyed the neighbour’s home.
Pari, Khyali Ram’s daughter, and Nadia, his only daughter, were inseparable.
“Move away from the window.” His terse reply brought tears to Nadia’s eyes, but incessant knocks on the door dampened her protests.
“Chacha (Uncle)…” A familiar voice sent Moosa rushing to the door.
“Beti (Daughter), what’re you doing here? Does Khyali know?” his voice quivered.
“Baba (Dad) sent these samosas. We’re leaving tonight. I just came to…” Pari’s eyes welled up. He consoled the child, ignoring the tears flowing down his cheeks. “Arey, you’ll be back soon. Don’t cry —” His wife’s mournful wail swallowed his next words. Moosa trembled like a leaf as a cacophony of horrid screams, joyous cheers, and sharp threats engulfed them.
He raced out to protect his dear friend and his family. Alas, he was no match against the cluster of bearded men who had emerged from the darkness. Brandishing swords and daggers, they went on a marauding spree, killing and butchering innocent men, women, and children.
The leader bellowed, “Kill them all.”
“Check the neighbour’s house if they are hiding anybody,” someone yelled.
Moosa’s knees gave way, and he crashed down. “I’m sorry, Khyali. I’ve failed you,” he bawled as the angry mob targeted his house next.
He remained slumped for what felt like ages, waiting for painful screams. But he heard nothing…
And then a man shouted, “No Hindu in here.”
Blinking in disbelief, Moosa dragged his bleeding frame over piles of ash and rubble. His heart skipped a beat at the scene inside – his wife, Pari, and Nadia sat huddled in a corner.
“I’m a mother first,” she whispered, rocking the terror-stricken girls.
I witnessed a child losing everything to fanatics, yet finding solace in the warm embrace of a few who could see beyond religion.
Meanwhile, thousands of kilometres away, a steam engine had left East Pakistan, and was now huffing and puffing towards Sealdah Railway Station. The usual smooth ride was now onerous due to the burdens it was lugging—scared minds, broken bodies, crushed dreams. A single line had forced them to abandon their ancestral homes.
The carriages were overflowing with harrowed men, women, and children who had defied death but were yet to let go of the fear. They had run away from disaster and were now holding on to fragile rays of hope.
The rickety train buzzed with whispers laced with gruesome details.
“In Sylhet, they cut open pregnant women.”
“I heard Kirtankhola river is flowing red.”
“In Faridpur, infants are being roasted.”
The conversations continued to build up steam as the journey progressed. But Paromita remained silent. Her thoughts were far away. An angry mob had attacked their village. The skies bled red as people, huts, and fields burned. Tying their new born child in a cloth bundle, the husband and wife had run for their life. Unfortunately, their journey ended abruptly as the rabid rioters attacked him with a sickle, and killed their child too.
In a single moment, she lost everything but couldn’t even shed tears. A tsunami of strangers hurled her into the train heading for India, a foreign land. The station was teeming with hundreds and hundreds of people. Yet Paromita had never felt this alone. With vacant eyes, she watched the battered, bruised beings escaping from either side, hoping to find succour and respite in a foreign land.
The cacophony all around was deafening. A few were calling out to their loved ones, while some were crying in pain, and many were chanting loud prayers. But above the din came a piercing cry for help. An unseen force pulled her towards the sound. Soon she was away from the caterwauling. With guarded steps, she veered towards the sound.
“Maago!” she let out a cry.
Behind a pillar, she found a couple slumped against the wall. The deep gash on the man’s neck reminded her of her husband’s last moments. A new born was unsuccessfully trying to suckle at the mother’s lifeless bosom. Her tattered burka was proof of the atrocity she had faced. The scratches on the limp frame were mirroring Paromita.
The heaviness in her chest was back again. She held the orphaned infant to her bosom. The heaviness melted and trickled down as he suckled hungrily. Paromita clasped the tiny fingers, and let the bottled-up emotions flow freely.
“I’m a mother first.”
Today, countless people turned barbaric. Rivers flowed red. Agonizing wails rang in the air. And despite everything, I survived.
I am Humanity-the thread tying humans together beyond all boundaries. And I hope to never die.
Image source: A still from the film Bombay
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Darlings makes some excellent points about domestic violence . For such a movie to not follow through with a resolution that won't be problematic, is disappointing.
I watched Darlings last weekend, staying on top of its release on Netflix. It was a long-awaited respite from the recent flicks. I wanted badly to jump into its praise and will praise it, for something has to be said for the powerhouse performances it is packed with. But I will not be able to in a way that I really had wanted to.
I wanted to say that this is a must-watch on domestic violence that I stand behind and a needed and nuanced social portrayal. But unfortunately, I can’t. For I found Darlings to be deeply problematic when it comes to the portrayal of domestic violence and how that should be dealt with.
Before we rush to the ‘you must be having a problem because a man was hit’ or ‘much worse happens to women’ conclusions, that is not what my issue is. I have seen the praises and criticisms, and the criticisms of criticisms. I know, from having had close associations with non-profits and activists who fight domestic violence not just in India but globally, that much worse happens to women. I have written a book with case studies and statistics on that. Neither do I have any moral qualms around violence getting tackled with violence (that will be another post some day).
Gender stereotypes, though a by-product of the patriarchal society that we have always lived in, are now so intricately woven into our conditioning that despite our progressive thinking, we are unable to break free from them.
Repeatedly crossing, while on my morning walk ̶ a sticky, vine-coloured patch on the walkway, painted by jamuns that have fallen from the jamun tree, crushed by the impact of their fall, and perhaps, inadvertently trampled upon by walkers, awakens memories of the mulberry tree that stood in my parents’ house when I was growing up. Right at the entrance of the house, the tree caused a similar red and violet chaos on the floor, which greeted us each time we entered the gate.
Today, as I walked by this red-violet patch, I was reminded of an incident that my mother had narrated to me several times. It had taken place shortly after her marriage and her arrival in this house from her hometown.