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The SC will hear the pleas of 8 women who were abandoned as brides by NRI husbands. Here's why the plea and the hearing are important.
The SC will hear the pleas of 8 women who were abandoned as brides by NRI husbands. Here’s why the plea and the hearing are important.
Most Indian women are fed a similar dream from an early age. The dream isn’t of getting proper education and fulfiling their dreams. Instead, it is to find a husband who will fulfil her dreams and will keep her happy forever. And what’s better is if the man is a Non-Resident Indian (NRI).
However, what happens when all these dreams turn into a horrible nightmare of exploitation by the same NRI husband?
The Supreme Court of India recently announced that in July, it would hear the pleas of women who are seeking the arrest of their NRI husbands. These women alleged they were financially, emotionally and physically exploited by their husbands.
According to a report by The Print, around 40,000 women have fallen prey to such men and many of them are left in poor financial, emotional and health conditions. This cause of worry was brought to notice when a plea was filed by eight women who were allegedly abandoned as brides by their husbands living abroad.
Following the plea, in November 2018, the apex court issued a notice to the Central Government. This notice directed the government to file an affidavit within six weeks on the feasibility of formulating a policy on the issue of bringing to book the NRI men who abandon their wives.
According to The Print, the petitioners had to run from pillar to post and even beg the police officials to file a simple FIR. Since there is no specific law to initiate legal action against their absconding husbands, they had to approach the apex court.
The petition mentions, ‘According to the guidelines, it should take 120 days, but in reality, it could take up to six months.’ The lead petitioner Smita Kudaisya said, ‘We filed a plea in the Supreme Court as a last resort. The law needs to change.
In 2018 the Ministry of External Affairs (MEA) revoked the passport of at least 25 NRI men who had abandoned their wives in India. However, it took a lot of time to take proper action.
The government has also revoked the passports of NRI men who abandoned their wives shortly after marriage or following marital disputes. These passports were revoked due to the increase in the number of complaints of domestic violence and abandonment from women against their NRI husbands.
According to the lead petitioner, the SC should have a set of binding guidelines for the Centre and other authorities for such issues. These guidelines need to be followed by the police, immigration services and Indian embassies across the world. This will help bring speedy justice to the women deserted by their NRI husbands.
Here are the guidelines that were suggested:
According to a report in The Wire, these women are often shamed and asked questions like ‘Who asked you to marry an NRI?’ by the government. Such statements don’t just promote a negative approach but also belittle women’s rights.
In some cases, the plea said that the woman would be pregnant when her husband left her, so both she and the child were abandoned. And in some other cases, the women were financially and sexually exploited. Thus, without a proper legal framework, an abandoned woman who is financially destitute and unable to take care of herself and her child has to live a rough life.
So having a proper system in place may ensure than no other women are subjected to such adversities in life under the pretext of marriage. These measures can play a proactive and empathetic role in coming to the rescue of abandoned women.
Also, these measures may help in preventing any malpractices like sexual assault and frauds by punishing culprits by following strict legal procedures.
Here’s hoping that the Supreme Court’s hearing in July brings respite to the women who have faced these difficult times and avoid similar incidents.
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Neena was the sole caregiver of Amma and though one would think that Amma was dependent on her, Neena felt otherwise.
Neena inhaled the aroma that emanated from the pan and took a deep breath. The aroma of cumin interspersed with butter transported her back to the modest kitchen in her native village. She could picture her father standing in the kitchen wearing his white crisp kurta as he made delectable concoctions for his only daughter.
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When she was sixteen, the catastrophic clutches of destiny snatched away her parents. They passed away in a road accident and Neena was devastated. Relatives thronged her now gloomy house and soon it was decided that she should be married off.
Women today don’t want to be in a partnership that complicates their lives further. They need an equal partner with whom they can figure out life as a team, playing by each other’s strengths.
We all are familiar with that one annoying aunty who is more interested in our marital status than in the dessert counter at a wedding. But these aunties have somehow become obsolete now. Now they are replaced by men we have in our lives. Friends, family, and even work colleagues. It’s the men who are worried about why we are not saying yes to one among their clans. What is wrong with us? Aren’t we scared of dying alone? Like them?
A recent interaction with a guy friend of mine turned sour when he lectured me about how I would regret not getting married at the right time. He lectured that every event in our lives needs to be completed within a certain timeframe set by society else we are doomed. I wasn’t angry. I was just disappointed to realize that annoying aunties are rapidly doubling in our society. And they don’t just appear at weddings or family functions anymore. They are everywhere. They are the real pandemic.
Let’s examine this a little closer.
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