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This beautiful poem talks about the pressures of existing as a "good mother" that society puts on women.
This beautiful poem talks about the pressures of existing as a “good mother” that society puts on women.
Her bundle of joy as she enveloped in her arms, She felt as if to her wounds God had applied a soothing balm. With every step of her child, she learned many things and grew as a mother, With the comforting thought that except motherhood,can there be any greater joy, other?
Her night and day and also her life centered around him, Except being a mother, all her other identies had ceased to exist, it seemed. Experiencing the joy of creation and of nurturing, After becoming a mother, everyday in new territories,she was venturing.
High on the pedestal,as a mother, the world had made her sit, The crown of being a ‘mother’ had never let her relax,a bit. For her child’s every achievement,she was never praised, But the day he faltered, questions on her upbringing were raised. The pedestal she had been risen to, had always been unstable, A slight mistake will raise questions on her upbringing,had been a fear, perpetual.
She never felt the same joy that she had felt on the day, When her new born baby calmly in her arms lay. How he grows and what he becomes will decide what kind of a mother she has been, In her child’s achievements and failures, her success as a mother, will be seen.
Many times she had tried to brush the thoughts and pressure, aside, Enjoying just being a mother with pride. The adjectives attributed to motherhood she detest and hate, How can society according to their whims to a mother, rate.
How she wish to enjoy every phase of motherhood without any long list of expectations, Relishing every bit of the bliss without instructions and suggestions. If equality is the norm everywhere,a mother too deserves some respite, A little space to move, to breathe,to falter and to stand again with father too taking some responsibilities in his stride.
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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