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When #MeToo allegations about Kevin Spacey surfaced, Ridley Scott was quick to reshoot scenes with another actor, weeks before his film’s release. But in India, the flag of patriarchy flies high as Alok Nath still finds work.
For many women shamed and coerced into silence, India’s second #MeToo wave (the first was led by Raya Sarkar) which started with Tanushree Dutta’s allegations against Nana Patekar, was a signal of hope that things would change. Writer-Director Vinta Nanda, had at the time accused Alok Nath, the “sanskaari babuji” of Bollywood, of sexual harassment. Actor Renuka Shahane had also supported Vinta Nanda at the time.
Unfortunately, those hopes seem to have been dashed to the ground recently. Earlier this year it was reported that Alok Nath, ironically, would be playing a judge in a movie based on the #MeToo movement. He also has a role in Ajay Devgn’s upcoming movie De De Pyaar De.
Ajay Devgn when asked about it, responded, “This is not the right place to talk about it and the film’s shoot was completed way before the allegations surfaced against the person.”
People were quick to point out that this response is far from satisfactory.
Some like Sandhya Ramesh, tweeted their utter frustration for the lack of accountability.
Super excited to see the next movie of rape accused Alok Nath come out and make tons of money for this safe, unexploitative industry that holds men accountable. https://t.co/4DM9uyJFT8 — Sandhya Ramesh (@sandygrains) April 2, 2019Never miss real stories from India's women.Register Now
Super excited to see the next movie of rape accused Alok Nath come out and make tons of money for this safe, unexploitative industry that holds men accountable. https://t.co/4DM9uyJFT8
— Sandhya Ramesh (@sandygrains) April 2, 2019
Some like Twitter user Shamini were quick to point out that every platform is the right platform to discuss important issues like sexual harassment.
Shame on @ajaydevgn for defending Alok Nath. They could have given him the boot post the allegations & FIR. I hate when celebs say “this is not the right platform to discuss”. Issues such as this deserved to be discussed on every platform. #DeDePyaarDeTrailer @IndiaMeToo https://t.co/fA5DGDOczq — Shamini.M.R (@Not_A_Shammer) April 2, 2019
Shame on @ajaydevgn for defending Alok Nath. They could have given him the boot post the allegations & FIR. I hate when celebs say “this is not the right platform to discuss”. Issues such as this deserved to be discussed on every platform. #DeDePyaarDeTrailer @IndiaMeToo https://t.co/fA5DGDOczq
— Shamini.M.R (@Not_A_Shammer) April 2, 2019
While Ajay Devgn may be correct in pointing out that the shoot of the movie was completed before the allegations, it does not mean that those portions in which Alok Nath appears cannot be reshot. They have had plenty of time to do so. In fact, the example of Ridley Scott replacing Kevin Spacey with Christopher Plummer in his movie, All The Money In The World, just weeks before its release, after Spacey was accused of sexual harassment, comes to mind. Spacey was also quickly replaced in the award winning Netflix series House of Cards.
The handle @IndiaMeToo, curated by independent journalist Rituparna Chatterjee, was quick to point out that men have always been given a free pass, and easily forgiven, while women continue to be shamed and silenced.
While women continue to be disbelieved, ridiculed and shoved back into silence, men accused of sexual violence continue to find work. @ajaydevgn @itsBhushanKumar I hope you know Alok Nath has been accused of rape and an FIR filed. Disgusting that he’s part of De De Pyar De. — #MeTooIndia (@IndiaMeToo) April 2, 2019
While women continue to be disbelieved, ridiculed and shoved back into silence, men accused of sexual violence continue to find work. @ajaydevgn @itsBhushanKumar I hope you know Alok Nath has been accused of rape and an FIR filed. Disgusting that he’s part of De De Pyar De.
— #MeTooIndia (@IndiaMeToo) April 2, 2019
One only has to contrast this with Radha Ravi’s recent slut shaming of Nayanthara to see the truth in this. Alok Nath has been accused of rape; Nayanthara’s only “crime” is having played glamourous roles. And yet there are people who believe that she is unfit to play Sita, while Alok Nath continues to play any role he wants. The hypocrisy is shameful.
Hollywood’s celebrities have constantly stood up and spoken in favour of progressive causes and against sexual harassment and other injustices, and have even criticized President Trump for his policies. As opposed to this, some celebrities in India stay silent on issues that matter, or worse, like in this case, support the wrongdoers. Bollywood’s heroes who flex muscles and mouth dialogues with flair on screen, do seem to lack a spine in real life.
I am not one to promote aping the West, but if we do copy Hollywood, let it be for the good things!
Meanwhile, the trailer of De De Pyaar Deitself is one that I cringed all the way through. The story, about an older man falling in love with a woman his daughter’s age, seems to pit the younger woman (Rakul Preet) against the older ex-wife, played by Tabu. This patriarchal plot line passing as “comedy” can only come from the table of Luv Ranjan, who himself has been accused of sexual harassment.
All that any of this proves is that we have miles to go before Bollywood becomes a better place for women.
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If her home and family seem to be impacted by her career then we expect her to prioritize her ‘responsibilities at home as a woman’ and leave her job.
The entrenched patriarchal norms have always perpetuated certain roles and responsibilities as falling specifically in the domain of either men or women. Traditionally, women have been associated with the domestic sphere while men have been considered the bread winner of the household. This division of roles has become so ingrained in our lives that we seldom come to question it. However, while not being questioned does give the system a certain level of legitimacy, it in no way proves its veracity.
This systematic division has resulted in a widely accepted notion whereby the public sphere is demarcated as a men’s zone and the private sphere as belonging to women. Consequently, women are expected to stay at home and manage the household chores while men are supposed to go out and make a living with no interest whatsoever in the running of the household.
This divide is said to be grounded in the intrinsic nature of men and women. Women are believed to be compassionate, affectionate and loving and these supposedly ‘feminine’ qualities make them the right fit for caring roles. Men, on the other hand are allegedly more sturdy, strong and bold and hence, the ones to deal with the ordeals of the outside world.
Investing in women means many things beyond the obvious meaning of this IWD2024 theme, as the many orgs doing stellar work can show us.
What does it mean to invest in women?
Telling the women in our lives how great we think they are? That we value the sacrifices they have made? (Usually though not necessarily only – a sacrifice of their aspirations, careers and earning potential in order to focus on family).
No, thank you. Just talk is no longer going to cut it. Roses and compliments are great, but it’s time people, leaders, organizations put their money, capital, resources on track instead.
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