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In the chaos and drudgery of the monotonous life. I yearn to do something that is only mine.
The moment that only belongs to me. Not stressing over when, what and how things ought to be. The moment that has heart in the right place. Away from the shadows of the busy maddening pace.
That time, I must spend grooming myself, without worrying about the chores and ringing doorbell. For my favorite meal, that I can have, all by myself. The book that I still haven’t read, the thoughts I still haven’t penned. That dress I still haven’t tried; my hair color, that has lost its shine.
That moment, I must spend, learning something new. Or, may I use it to get some extra winks to freshen up as dew. I may not take this moment to reply to messages, not even to clean the passage. The moment I may steal, to spend it with the love of my life or grab my hot cup and stand by the window, to enjoy the lovely sight.
I may take this time to reflect and introspect, or just dance with crazy abandon with full zest. I will neither take a day, nor an hour, I will just take a small moment to spare.
Let me take a moment, Oh Life! Let me do something that is only mine. For happiness starts with me, and happy I will always be.
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People say that women are the greatest enemies of women. I vehemently disagree. It is the patriarchal mindset that makes women believe in the wrong ideology.
The entire world celebrates International Women’s Day on March 8, 2024. It should be a joyful day, but unfortunately, not all women are entitled to this privilege, as violence against women is at its peak. The experience of oppression pushes many women to choose freedom. As far as patriotism is concerned, feminism is not a cup of tea in this society.
What happens when a woman decides to stand up for herself? Does this world easily accept the decisions of women in this society? What inspires them to be free of the clutches of the oppression that women have faced for ages? Most of the time, women do not get the chance to decide for themselves. Their lives are always at the mercy of someone, which can be their parents, siblings, husband, or children.
In some cases, women do not feel the need to make any decisions. They are taught to obey the patriarchal system, which makes them believe that they are right. In my family, I was never taught to make decisions on my own. It was always my parents who bought dresses and all that I needed.
14 years after her last feature film Dhobi Ghat, storyteller extraordinaire comes up with her new film, Laapataa Ladies, a must watch.
*Some spoilers alert*
Every religion around the world dictates terms to women. The onus is always on women to be ‘modest’ and cover their faces and bodies so men can’t be “tempted”, rather than on men to keep their eyes where they belong and behave like civilized beings. So much so that even rape has been excused on the grounds of women eating chowmein or ‘men will be men’. I think the best Hindi movie retort to this unwanted advice on ‘akeli ladki khuli tijori ki tarah hoti hai’ (an alone woman is like an open jewellery box) came from Geet in Jab We Met – Kya aap gyan dene ke paise lete hain kyonki chillar nahin hain mere paas.
The premise of Laapataa Ladies is beautifully simple – two brides clad in the ghunghat that covers their identity get mixed up on a train. Within this Russian Doll, you get a comedy of errors, a story of getting lost, a commentary on patriarchy’s attitude towards women, a mystery, and a tale of finding oneself, all in one. Done with a mostly light touch that has you laughing and nodding along.
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