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These women centric ads are making rounds on the Indian Television, and for all the right reasons. They take us a step forward.
These few women centric ads are making rounds on Indian television, and for all the right reasons. They take us a step forward!
“The single story creates stereotypes, and the problem with stereotypes is not that they are untrue, but that they are incomplete. They make one story become the only story.”
― Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
Recently, I watched an advertisement (ad) that went viral on YouTube. It was called ‘The Visit’ by an Indian company selling women’s ethnic wear. While, I checked that ad, there were a few more ads from the same company that caught my attention.
And here’s what I felt. These advertisements are undoubtedly what Indian women need right now. They are a welcome change from the daily dose of messages on Indian TV, like, “I used to hide my face in shame before because people called me ‘chipchip’.” Or, “Be selfie ready at all times”. Or better still, those hypocritical ads by one of those beauty brands which claim to be portraying real women that said things like “Have you ever observed how you’re never happy with your skin/hair?”
Well, the first one called The Visit is about a lesbian Indian couple, who are living together. Despite what mainstream media/Bollywood usually depicts, these girls are just ordinary people like you and me. Not the stereotypical lesbian image of one partner being the tomboy. The ad focuses on the tenderness of their relationship, and not on their gender.
The two women in love are waiting for one of their parents to come over. They’ve decided to disclose their relationship to the parents. The nervousness is palpable, and so is the strength of their relationship. At a point in time, when section 377 takes India a few steps backward in terms of progress and accepting each other, this is such a relevant and bold comeback. Kudos to the makers!
The other ad titled The Wait also breaks conventions. Here, a lady waits for someone at a bar with a hard drink, and a man approaches her unabashedly, assuming that since she’s drinking alone, she must be ‘easily available’. The comeback he receives make you root for the lady. It also gives you the confidence that the time has come for Indian women to venture alone into restaurants, bars, theaters, clubs, etc. And no one has the right to stop us from having fun!
The third ad titled The Whispers brings into light another social issue of a woman being a single parent. And how she need not give justification about the existence of her husband!
The ads are unpretentious, carrying extremely poignant messages for today’s Indian women (and also men) and help us fall in love with a brand without that brand being too intrusive and commercial.
Do check the ads outs, if you still haven’t (and before some of these get banned!)
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Kasturi’s debut novel, forthcoming in early 2021, had won the novel pitch competition by Half Baked Beans Publishers.
She won the Runner Up Position in the Orange Flower Awards 2021 for Short Fiction.
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If her MIL had accepted her with some affection, wouldn't they have built a mutually happier relationship by now?
The incident took place ten years ago.
Smita could visit her mother only in summers when her daughter had school holidays. Her daughter also enjoyed meeting her Nani, and both of them had done their reservations for a week. A month before their visit, her husband told her, “My mom is coming for 4-5 months!”
Smita shuddered. She knew the repercussions. She would have to hear sarcastic comments from her mother-in-law for visiting her mother. She may make these comments directly only a bit, but her servants would be flooded with the words, “How horrible she is! She leaves me and goes!”
Are we so swayed by star power and the 'entertainment' quotient of cinema that satisfies our carnal instincts that we choose to ignore our own subconscious mind which always knows what is right and what is wrong?
Trigger Warning: This has graphic descriptions of violence and may be triggering to survivors and victims of violence.
Do you remember your first exposure to an extremely violent act or the aftermath of a violent act?
I am pretty sure for most of us it would be through cinema. But I remember very vividly my first exposure to aftermath of an unbelievably grotesque violent act in real life. It was as a student at a Dental College and Hospital.
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