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Swara Bhaskar getting trolled for her open letter about Padmaavat where she wrote 'she felt reduced to a vagina' proves how our culture is still deep-rooted in patriarchy
Swara Bhaskar getting trolled for her open letter about Padmaavat where she wrote ‘she felt reduced to a vagina’ proves how our culture is still deep-rooted in patriarchy
Swara Bhaskar recently penned an open letter where she criticized Sanjay Leela Bhansali’s Padmavaat by saying that the movie seemed to make her feel reduced to a vagina. This is not the first instance of SLB’s Padmavat being criticized. Critics had called it out for being utterly regressive, for showing the Muslim ruler Khilji in an overtly negative light, for being homophobic, casteist, and overall misogynistic. However, Swara seems to bring out the wrath in people like no other.
Let us see some of the points she raised in her letter:
“Women have the right to live, despite being raped”
“Women have the right to live — independent of whether men are living or not.”
“There is life outside the vagina, and so there can be life after rape.“
All she meant to say was that isn’t it high time that we give women the agency over their bodies and minds do not perpetuate the rape culture by glorifying practices where women preferred being burnt alive than being raped?
Yes, that was the 13th Century, but things could have been shown differently in today’s context. Hence, Swara also asks how a movie like this can be made without putting the shameful practice of jauhar into any context? She gives the example of Hollywood where no movie on slavery can be made these days without putting those into the right context.
However, people seem to be suddenly irked by Swara’s response especially. It seems that her constant use of the word, ‘vagina’ in her letter, is a source of the wrath for many. I’ve seen this trend before as well when the AIB and Kangana Ranaut vagina song was released.
What is it that makes most Indians so uncomfortable towards the usage of the term ‘vagina’? Isn’t it high time we grew up as a country?
People have made remarks like, “feminists think from their vaginas and not their brains”, it is “fashionable to say words like vagina to feel like a rebel” and so on.
It is ironical that a very basic part of the female anatomy is such a controversial word that just writing or talking about it can make most people in our country rise up in protest. Swara has been mercilessly trolled since her open letter got published.
Does this in itself not prove the legitimacy of Swara’s argument? That we still do not have the agency over talking about something that belongs to us? That talking about our own genitals might turn us into “attention seekers” and “fake feminists” in people’s eyes?
Isn't it fascinating when a man explains a #vagina to a woman and tells a woman what it feels like to be a raped woman? (@ReallySwara I have seen worse. I remember a man on Twitter explaining labour pain to a #woman who is a mother.) #WednesdayWisdom pic.twitter.com/VItcY0K3zq — Anna MM Vetticad (@annavetticad) January 31, 2018
Isn't it fascinating when a man explains a #vagina to a woman and tells a woman what it feels like to be a raped woman? (@ReallySwara I have seen worse. I remember a man on Twitter explaining labour pain to a #woman who is a mother.) #WednesdayWisdom pic.twitter.com/VItcY0K3zq
— Anna MM Vetticad (@annavetticad) January 31, 2018
Those threatening, trolling, and sexually harassing Swara Bhasker are proving her point better than she did: 2018 India is a hell for women. Please don't believe the incendiary quotes being attributed to her. This is a campaign of malign, as happens to any woman who speaks out. — Rega Jha (@RegaJha) January 31, 2018
Those threatening, trolling, and sexually harassing Swara Bhasker are proving her point better than she did: 2018 India is a hell for women.
Please don't believe the incendiary quotes being attributed to her. This is a campaign of malign, as happens to any woman who speaks out.
— Rega Jha (@RegaJha) January 31, 2018
Image source:By http://www.bollywoodhungama.com/ [CC BY 3.0], via Wikimedia Commons and a still from the movie Padmaavat
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