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A soldier may be paid to fight as part of an army, but does that mean his death can be brushed aside so callously?
“A broken bone can heal, but the wound a word opens can fester forever. ” – Jessamyn West
Recently, five brave men of the Central Reserve Police Force laid down their lives in Pulwama after they fought off three terrorists who had been holed up in their training centre. This was post midnight, when the rest of the country was either sleeping peacefully, or busy wishing their near and dear ones. While crackers exploded at midnight to signify the joy of a new year, there were five families about to be shattered, as their loved ones, clad in uniform, were fighting three deadly terrorists. After a 36-hour gun battle, the three were dead, but five precious lives were also lost.
“As long as men take oaths to achieve their goals, courting even death in the bargain, it will be difficult to make a place absolutely impregnable. For it is the fear of death that makes a man retrace his steps, and when that fear is snuffed out of him, he becomes the deadliest weapon ever known. For then, there is no stopping him ever”, goes a line in my book, Arms And The Woman.
Rajnath Singh, the Union Home Minister, praised the soldiers for their bravery, saying, “I appreciate all our soldiers for their sincere efforts to gun down terrorists at the border.”
However, his statement got lost as another member of his party, a seventy-seven year old, who would have been expected to have inherited a sense of dignity and wisdom in all his seven decades of living, suddenly made headlines with his thoughtless and callous words.
“Soldiers will die every day. Is there a nation where army-men don’t die? When there is a scuffle in a village, someone is bound to get injured,” the lawmaker from Rampur responded to reporters when asked about the attack. Adding insult to injury, he went on, “Is there a device that stops bullets? Is there anything that can stop death? If so, we will get it prepared.”
An outpouring of outrage on Twitter and on all other social media platforms erupted, and rightly so. One could not fathom a fatality caused by a terrorist attack being compared to a scuffle in a village! A nation in mourning for the martyrdom of valuable lives reacted in honest indignation, causing the lawmaker to retract his statement with the usual, humdrum excuse.
“I have not insulted the army. I’m sorry; I apologise, but I have not said any such thing.”
However, the damage had already been done. As the ruling party distanced themselves from his statement, there was a further clarification straight from the horse’s mouth: “I was saying that the scientists are trying to discover any device that can help safeguard the lives of the soldiers.”
How far have the lawmakers of our nation fallen when such statements are thrown around so casually, hurting the sentiments of all right-thinking, patriotic people in the country? This is not the first time when members of the ruling party have used harsh language and made unthinkable statements, only to retract them later. What makes this unforgiveable is the fact that the party in question distances itself from the culprit, without strongly condemning what he has said. Perhaps, that is why motor mouths within the party continue to do what they are best at – make statements that wound the sentiments, much akin to throwing stones at a beehive. They then take cover behind their parties, even as the bees swarm around in a fury, but finally settle down, till the next outrage.
Maybe, there should be a class taken for these erring souls, (for there are going to be many, many more, given the number of motor mouths in the hallowed ground of politics), a class that teaches them what to say and how to say it. There is definitely a mechanism that helps one to use one’s brain faster than one’s tongue; it is called common sense.
Thus, it is time that some wise soul with tact and diplomacy reined in all these venerable souls who put their foot in their mouth every time they open it. It is time that respect and reverence are shown to those who serve the nation, and their families, who walk on a razor’s edge each time their loved ones venture out on dangerous missions. It is time that, if a man talks nonsense, he is condoned and chided in public, so that others may guard their tongues in fear of the same treatment.
“There comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular, but he must take it because conscience tells him it is right.”- Martin Luther King Jr.: A Testament of Hope: The Essential Writings and Speeches
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UP Boards Topper Prachi Nigam was trolled on social media for her facial hair; our obsession with appearance is harsh on young minds.
Prachi Nigam’s photo has been doing the rounds on social media for the right reasons. Well, scratch that- I wish the above statement were true. This 15-year-old girl should ideally be revelling in her spectacular achievement of scoring a whopping 98.05% and topping her tenth-grade boards. But oddly enough, along with her marks, it’s something else that garners more attention – her facial hair.
While the trolls are driving themselves giddy by mocking this girl who hasn’t even completed her school yet, the ones who are taking her side are going one step ahead – they are sharing her photoshopped pictures, sans the facial hair, looking nothing less than a celebrity with captions saying – “Prachi Nigam, ten years later”.
Doctors have already diagnosed her with PCOD in their comments, based on photographic evidence. While we have names for people shamed for their weight – body shaming, for their skin colour- racism, for their age- age shaming, for being a female- sexism, this category of shaming where one faces criticism for their appearance has no name. With that, it also has zero shame attached to it.
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