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When that someone, who once loved you loves you no longer, that is the most painful feeling ever! How to survive a heart break & carry on? #WomenOnTheMove
When that someone who once loved you, loves you no longer, that is the most painful feeling ever! How do you survive heartbreak and carry on? We discuss.
Heartbreak is a multi-faceted beast; sometimes you break your own heart because you choose the wrong person to fall in love with and then sometimes, someone else breaks your heart saying you were the wrong choice. Either way, your heart is broken and the pain is unfathomable.
Trust me, we have all been there or will be there at some point of our lives; a time when we’ll feel gutted inside; think that we will be sucked in deep into this giant sinkhole; where escape will not be an option and being happy not a choice anymore.
Whether someone we love deeply chooses to leave us, a close friend or a family member passes away or something that we’ve been working so hard on for our entire life doesn’t work out, it can feel impossible to accept. But that’s exactly what needs to happen. We cannot make someone fall in love with us, no matter how hard we try.
Yesterday, we had our weekly #WomenOnTheMove chat over at Twitter, where we discussed how to survive heartbreak. Is the pain different for men and women? This is what our tweeples said. We also had with us author Ira Trivedi who has written previously, India In Love, and now explores love and heartbreak in her new novel, Nikhil And Riya.
(If you’re not yet following Women’s Web on Twitter, do now, and you can come over for the chat too, every Wednesday 6-7PM IST).
A1: Be strong. Trust your abilities. Stop caring and move on. #WomenOnTheMove https://t.co/n2puHMA2tU — Tarang Sinha (@TarangSinha) February 1, 2017Never miss real stories from India's women.Register Now
A1: Be strong. Trust your abilities. Stop caring and move on. #WomenOnTheMove https://t.co/n2puHMA2tU
— Tarang Sinha (@TarangSinha) February 1, 2017
@womensweb Time. It brings perspective and, if you’re lucky, detachment. — Sunayana Roy (@sunayanaroy) February 1, 2017
@womensweb Time. It brings perspective and, if you’re lucky, detachment.
— Sunayana Roy (@sunayanaroy) February 1, 2017
@womensweb straight up drowning yourself in other things that take yo brain space. Helps some. — Radhika (@rads) February 1, 2017
@womensweb straight up drowning yourself in other things that take yo brain space. Helps some.
— Radhika (@rads) February 1, 2017
@womensweb a1 been through it once, being busy helped to a certain extent.. Let myself grieve and got over him. #womenonthemove — Aarti Krishnakumar (@talesfromaaroo) February 1, 2017
@womensweb a1 been through it once, being busy helped to a certain extent.. Let myself grieve and got over him. #womenonthemove
— Aarti Krishnakumar (@talesfromaaroo) February 1, 2017
@womensweb A1. travel,chats with friends,meditation sometimes wine. — Pooja Priyamvada (@IAmSufiZen) February 1, 2017
@womensweb A1. travel,chats with friends,meditation sometimes wine.
— Pooja Priyamvada (@IAmSufiZen) February 1, 2017
@womensweb Move on and immerse yourself in something productive. Talk to your loved ones to feel better. — Neha Jain (@digimothercom) February 1, 2017
@womensweb Move on and immerse yourself in something productive. Talk to your loved ones to feel better.
— Neha Jain (@digimothercom) February 1, 2017
@womensweb a2 it depends on your frame of mind & meeting someone interesting as well. Just make sure it’s not a rebound #womenonthemove — Aarti Krishnakumar (@talesfromaaroo) February 1, 2017
@womensweb a2 it depends on your frame of mind & meeting someone interesting as well. Just make sure it’s not a rebound #womenonthemove
@womensweb A2. Depends, no hard and fast rules,sometimes chronology is not so water tight. — Pooja Priyamvada (@IAmSufiZen) February 1, 2017
@womensweb A2. Depends, no hard and fast rules,sometimes chronology is not so water tight.
@womensweb definitely 3 with different relations and ppl the heart behaves diff I guess — TravelingNoodles (@anjujayaram) February 1, 2017
@womensweb definitely 3 with different relations and ppl the heart behaves diff I guess
— TravelingNoodles (@anjujayaram) February 1, 2017
@womensweb Although it depends on the circumstances, but it is better to take a break and give yourself some time! — Neha Jain (@digimothercom) February 1, 2017
@womensweb Although it depends on the circumstances, but it is better to take a break and give yourself some time!
@womensweb @IAmSufiZen Everyone has his/her own https://t.co/D87nDtiWsW must be watchful that it isn’t on the rebound.For your own sake. — Varsh (@varshabagadia) February 1, 2017
@womensweb @IAmSufiZen Everyone has his/her own https://t.co/D87nDtiWsW must be watchful that it isn’t on the rebound.For your own sake.
— Varsh (@varshabagadia) February 1, 2017
@womensweb a3 absolutely.. Girls are open to breaking age old myths and shackles.. They are far more independent #womenonthemove — Aarti Krishnakumar (@talesfromaaroo) February 1, 2017
@womensweb a3 absolutely.. Girls are open to breaking age old myths and shackles.. They are far more independent #womenonthemove
@womensweb Women now are more ready to accept flawed people/relationships and move on. Thats good. #womenonthemove https://t.co/fbPCQLfJXF — Varsh (@varshabagadia) February 1, 2017
@womensweb Women now are more ready to accept flawed people/relationships and move on. Thats good. #womenonthemove https://t.co/fbPCQLfJXF
@womensweb most misused,misunderstood emotion ever. — Pooja Priyamvada (@IAmSufiZen) February 1, 2017
@womensweb most misused,misunderstood emotion ever.
@womensweb a4 it’s an emotion that can only be experienced and not explained.. #womenonthemove — Aarti Krishnakumar (@talesfromaaroo) February 1, 2017
@womensweb a4 it’s an emotion that can only be experienced and not explained.. #womenonthemove
@womensweb Real love begins when nothing is expected in return. #ThichNhatHanh — Pooja Priyamvada (@IAmSufiZen) February 1, 2017
@womensweb Real love begins when nothing is expected in return. #ThichNhatHanh
To not be in love with love the emotion. Learn to accept unconditionally is what love means to me. https://t.co/dGGakazW8s — foodietrails (@kuheli1) February 1, 2017
To not be in love with love the emotion. Learn to accept unconditionally is what love means to me. https://t.co/dGGakazW8s
— foodietrails (@kuheli1) February 1, 2017
@womensweb a4 you like one guy more than others, willing to bend the rules a bit, comfort, ability to talk about anything or just be. — Aarti Krishnakumar (@talesfromaaroo) February 1, 2017
@womensweb a4 you like one guy more than others, willing to bend the rules a bit, comfort, ability to talk about anything or just be.
@womensweb I think gender is just incidental if there is genuine emotional investment. — Pooja Priyamvada (@IAmSufiZen) February 1, 2017
@womensweb I think gender is just incidental if there is genuine emotional investment.
I don’t think intrinsically but wonder – why do movies show a woman who leaves a relationship as the heartless bitch… #womenonthemove https://t.co/qjKFC84CcV — Aparna V Singh (@editorsahiba) February 1, 2017
I don’t think intrinsically but wonder – why do movies show a woman who leaves a relationship as the heartless bitch… #womenonthemove https://t.co/qjKFC84CcV
— Aparna V Singh (@editorsahiba) February 1, 2017
@womensweb As we all know “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus” so their way of dealing with it is totally different. Doesn’t matter. — Neha Jain (@digimothercom) February 1, 2017
@womensweb As we all know “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus” so their way of dealing with it is totally different. Doesn’t matter.
@womensweb I reckon it depends on how emotionally invested they are in the relationship. Gender is secondary — Sid (@iwrotethose) February 1, 2017
@womensweb I reckon it depends on how emotionally invested they are in the relationship. Gender is secondary
— Sid (@iwrotethose) February 1, 2017
@womensweb If a couple is truly in love, ideally, the feelings should be same after break-up irrespective of gender, no? 🙂 #WomenOnTheMove — Tarang Sinha (@TarangSinha) February 1, 2017
@womensweb If a couple is truly in love, ideally, the feelings should be same after break-up irrespective of gender, no? 🙂 #WomenOnTheMove
@womensweb a5 nope I have seen guys hit worse than women.. #womenonthemove — Aarti Krishnakumar (@talesfromaaroo) February 1, 2017
@womensweb a5 nope I have seen guys hit worse than women.. #womenonthemove
Yes, heartbreaks are painful but we need to accept it and move on. You can get over your heartbreak with more ease and better sense of self if you let go and realize the worst part is over and it’s time for you to move on with life!
And if you are in Bangalore, join us on Saturday, February 4th, for a fun event on What Women Want (in love and relationships), where you’ll meet Ira Trivedi and other engaging speakers.
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