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The recent news of a minor girl allegedly molested by a female warden in Mumbai came to light. Can women be sexual predators too?
Recently, a minor girl was reportedly molested by a female warden in her school premises in suburban Mumbai. The finer details of the case remain unclear for now. So far, no arrests have been made, and the minor’s parents did not lodge a complaint – and even went so far as to write to the police saying that they were not associated with the complaint. Nevertheless, the main issue in the case brings up some important issues to keep in mind.
It is often an assumption that a perpetrator of sexual violence is male. This assumes that the profile of the target of sexual violence or abuse is female. This stereotypical perception has its roots in hegemonic and toxic masculinity.
It must be remembered that sexual violence is more about dominance than lust. It is this sense of dominance that defines the notion of power, where to suggest that a woman could be the perpetrator or a man could be the target suggests emasculation. This perception is both inaccurate, and dangerous.
In the one-sided perception that only a man/male can be the perpetrator of sexual abuse, we are perpetuating the gender divide in prosecution, while also not accounting for the fact that there can be a continued abetment of the crime by the silence around it.
It also accounts for the silence around the issue in educating boys to stay safe – thereby ignoring their psycho-social needs if they have faced abuse at any point in time. In the process, there happens to be a form of socialization, where inadvertently or otherwise, this belief system is transferred to the future generations, and is reinforced time and time again by a slew of external influences.
In the larger scheme of things, the act of not accounting for the likelihood of women being perpetrators of sexual abuse makes organizational attention to the issue skewed. In recruitment and retention of their workforce across all levels, schools might wind up overlooking the credentials of female employees.
In a social structure that still largely believes and perceives teaching, care-giving and supporting the profession of teaching as a largely woman-dominated domain, at least in schools – the belief that a woman cannot be a perpetrator of abuse is doubly dangerous. Children remain in the care of their teachers, support staff and care-givers at school for a good amount of time in the day. Their safety, is therefore, the top priority.
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People say that women are the greatest enemies of women. I vehemently disagree. It is the patriarchal mindset that makes women believe in the wrong ideology.
The entire world celebrates International Women’s Day on March 8, 2024. It should be a joyful day, but unfortunately, not all women are entitled to this privilege, as violence against women is at its peak. The experience of oppression pushes many women to choose freedom. As far as patriotism is concerned, feminism is not a cup of tea in this society.
What happens when a woman decides to stand up for herself? Does this world easily accept the decisions of women in this society? What inspires them to be free of the clutches of the oppression that women have faced for ages? Most of the time, women do not get the chance to decide for themselves. Their lives are always at the mercy of someone, which can be their parents, siblings, husband, or children.
In some cases, women do not feel the need to make any decisions. They are taught to obey the patriarchal system, which makes them believe that they are right. In my family, I was never taught to make decisions on my own. It was always my parents who bought dresses and all that I needed.
14 years after her last feature film Dhobi Ghat, storyteller extraordinaire comes up with her new film, Laapataa Ladies, a must watch.
*Some spoilers alert*
Every religion around the world dictates terms to women. The onus is always on women to be ‘modest’ and cover their faces and bodies so men can’t be “tempted”, rather than on men to keep their eyes where they belong and behave like civilized beings. So much so that even rape has been excused on the grounds of women eating chowmein or ‘men will be men’. I think the best Hindi movie retort to this unwanted advice on ‘akeli ladki khuli tijori ki tarah hoti hai’ (an alone woman is like an open jewellery box) came from Geet in Jab We Met – Kya aap gyan dene ke paise lete hain kyonki chillar nahin hain mere paas.
The premise of Laapataa Ladies is beautifully simple – two brides clad in the ghunghat that covers their identity get mixed up on a train. Within this Russian Doll, you get a comedy of errors, a story of getting lost, a commentary on patriarchy’s attitude towards women, a mystery, and a tale of finding oneself, all in one. Done with a mostly light touch that has you laughing and nodding along.
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